What to do with this kind of friend?
By athenabeth
@athenabeth (7)
United States
August 31, 2008 12:10pm CST
I have a friend, we have been best freinds for like 6 years and we were really close. She was asked to be in another one of our friends wedding and since she attended her wedding im no longer her best friend, they are best friends now. I mean she is 24 and im 23 so we are not children. She is the type of person who says something negative about everyone and when we were in school i was always driving her around, and her boyfriend. and we always used my car because i had my license before her. now im in a situation where my husband works many hours so im home with no car and she can't even come over and invite me to places when she knows im in a bad situation, should i still stay friends with her or cut it off quick, its hard you know.
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2 responses
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
31 Aug 08
ending your friendship just coz of small misunderstanding or miscommunication is a wrong move , i think. 6 years is quite treasurable. Maybe there's a side of you being jealous of something, like attention. But maybe not. All you have to do is be open to your friend and let her know how you feel. So that she'll be aware of what you think and feel of her actions.
@harrington520 (35)
• United States
31 Aug 08
Talk about rude, i've had alot of friends like that, i still do and they all of a sudden email me because they haven't talked to me in forever, but as for your situation why not ask her what the deal is? Or just be outspoken and ask for what you want, As for your husband working many hours i know the feeling, we've one car, my husband is in the military and he's on base most of the day and needs the car, if i were you i'd look into askin your friend what the deal is and why your all of a sudden less than dirt to her.
