This site isnt very good

Do you mean commenting, or actually posting to a discussion? Most discussions get at least a few posts, unless they are really bad. I suppose it depends on how many people are on when it gets posted too.

Maybe you need to take a little more time to look around at the discussions here. There are tons of different discussions to read and comment on! It helps if you build up your friends list. Your friends should be commenting on some of your discussions. I have had some great conversations during my time here at mylot. I am sure there are a few cliques, but not all of us are involved in them. Give it a little more time, relax, and enjoy yourself!