what do you want first?boy or girl?
By ehlsie
@ehlsie (730)
Philippines
August 31, 2008 9:14pm CST
I'm thinkig for my future right now...having a stable job, helped to give a better life for my sister and my mom, having my own house and lot, own car and having my own family.. I have a boyfriend right now, and we're talking to get married...as we shared all the things that we want, ask him what baby you want first? boy or firl? He said he want a baby girl ( but as he said any of the two will do but he prefer most girl)And wneh i ask him why he said that he want girl so that when our child grew up there's the one who will help me in the house. But for me i want baby boy first because in my family side...I have no boys! we're all girls! all of my cousin are girls!that's why i want a baby boyand thesame time, if we'll hjave our second baby there's a little guy who will take care and protect with her little sister(coz i want my second baby to be a baby girl)
But ofcourse any of the two is ok...how about you?what do you want on your first baby?baby boy or baby girl??
thank you for sharing it with us!!
happy mylotters!
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10 responses
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
yeah me too...i also want to have a twin kids...(boy or girl if ever!!! but i don't think it will happen!!haha) I have a cousin (twins) but they are so different. They are Fraternal..Even the height in everything thet're so different!But they are both intellegent!(they are no.1 and 2 in school!)
Thanks for sharing! Happy mylotters!
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Well,I want my first baby to be a boy same reasons as you.. In our family,there is only one boy which is my older brother (he is 2nd child) while we are three girls.. I like to have a baby boy first because my other siblings have already their first child who is a baby girl so for change I like to have a baby boy for my first child and I know that my father will be very happy... My second reason also is same as you that so that he can protect his baby sister (i'm planning to have 2 children only 1 boy and girl) from other kids especially in school.. But if God don't allow to give what I like then it is ok any two will come first is ok for as long as they were healthy and no disability..
@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
3 Sep 08
Hi ;
I do not have any such preference . The important point is that the baby should be healthy .
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 08
Well.. I really don't know. For me both are okay. I want to have kids and that's all matter. If I got boy, then it would be what my family wants, and if I get girl, that would exactly what my GF wants. So whatever it would be, I would be very happy to be able to have a kid.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 08
Yeah... healthy baby. Of course. Who doesn't want to have a healthy baby. It would be very sad to have a sick baby. And this is I agree with you completely. You're welcome, I am glad that I could help you with my comments.
Good luck in having baby, and have a nice day :)
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Ideally I want a boy first but I had a girl. LOL! I've never had a brother so i wanted a boy to "baby" the sister. I had my cousins assume this role for me. Since I now have a daughter, I am still hoping that my next child would be aboy so that I can really say that my family is complete. 
I've never had a brother so i wanted a boy to "baby" the sister. I had my cousins assume this role for me. Since I now have a daughter, I am still hoping that my next child would be aboy so that I can really say that my family is complete. @ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Yeah..right! I'm hoping that the you'll have a baby boy!i really love kids i have a cousins(twin).their both girl...And i'm one whose takin care of them...(it's very hard to take care kids ages 5 years old!!!)buti'm so happy when i'm taking care of them specially when they kiss me both!!!haha...( i missed them!!!)
@gemini_rose (16264)
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13 Sep 08
That is something that I actually never thought much about when I was pregnant with my first child. I was in a bit of a mess and quite ill so it was not something that I spent too much time thinking of. When I was pregnant the second time though, things were a lot better and I wanted a girl, because I had already had a boy.
Did not get a girl though I had another boy.
