Jealous much? what would you do if..
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
Australia
August 31, 2008 10:30pm CST
A well known sl*t was sitting in between your boyfriends legs? would you confront them or carry on like nothing was going on?
this happened two nights ago. 16 year old bicycle sat down in between my boyfriends legs when we were camping, It is one of my best friends little sisters but she is a known tart around the town and has even slept with 2 of her sisters ex's.
We were all drinking and she sat down basically on my boyfriends lap!
I asked her "What the f*ck she thought she thought she was doing" and after a lame excuse of putting her shoes on, it was on and we were punching each other in the face and rolling around the campsite, (lol 
)before everyone else jumped in and split it up.
Was i wrong for making this a confrontation?
Would you go and sit between someones legs when you wanted to put your shoes on?
maybe it's just me but i think it's asking for trouble.
)before everyone else jumped in and split it up.
Was i wrong for making this a confrontation?
Would you go and sit between someones legs when you wanted to put your shoes on?
maybe it's just me but i think it's asking for trouble.8 people like this
22 responses
@lourdez12 (73)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
i take it the basically word means... it was almost as if she was sitting
not really sitting on your boyfriends lap right..
maybe your boyfriend was as shocked as you are with the other girl's action...
he can't push her since she is really not sitting on his lap....
can't blame you for what you did...
but from now on ...most people will think of you as the violent jealous girlfriend...
regardless if the girl deserved it or not....
and also it might make your boyfriend feel you do not trust him as much...
you can get even some other way....less violent but will make her think twice flirting with your guy...be creative...
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@rosesthorns14 (803)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
honestly, it's kinda freaky of you to start a confrontation but I see that it's very reasonable to do that. I wish you could also punch your bf straight to his face and give him a nosebleed, for not kicking that tart's azz away. That kind of temptation is hard to resist for most guys, and it shows that he's incapable of avoiding it. If he's in love with you, he shouldn't allow any sl*t to sit between his legs (WTF is he thinking about what the tart'd been doing right BETWEEN his legs? Why won't he shoo that sl*t away?) If I put myself in your shoes, I'd make sure she'll get the beating she deserves. There are other places to sit for the tart to fix her shoes, and the dumb idea of the sl*t sitting between my guy's lap or between his legs JUST to fix her shoes on is actually asking for trouble. That would even lose my temper that I could never control.
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
18 Sep 08
that's it is both of them, but he coped his later don't worry he heard about it too.
@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
1 Sep 08
I don't think you were wrong for confronting this girl, but maybe you took things a little too far to physically assault her. Yes, she had no business sitting where she sat, but did you ever think of this? Why didn't your BF get up???
But I would have done the same thing you did at first. I would have let the girl have it. I wouldn't have hit her unless she hit me, but I would not have let her sitting there slide. Especially knowing that she is the town bicycle.
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
1 Sep 08
Your boyfriend should have been the one to have told her to move or moved her off of him...He is just as responsible for letting it happen....As far as the reason being so she could put her shoes on is very lame...
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@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
11 Sep 10
Yes your right i see know it wasn't the only time it happened.
thanks for the comment. :D I can't believe i got so many responses!! great guys!!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Sep 08
Well I know for a fact my fiance would shove the girl off his lap but if a well known harlot had done that I would definitely be really pissed, and although I wouldn't want to fight I would if I had to. I suppose it would depend on who I was around. If I was around my fiance's family, my family or a select few of our friends I wouldn't fight. If it was say his "brother", me, my fiance and this girl I'd be all over her. Especially since most likely, at least in my hypothetical situation, the girl would be my fiance's "brother's" gf who just happens to be my cousin (the brother) and I would definitely be defending him, my fiance and myself from such a harlot.
Oh and I know what your thinking but he's my distant cousin and is in no way related to my fiance.... yet. lol.
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@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
18 Sep 08
lol yeah i know it isn't the right thing to do and he should have done something but he didn't and she carried on too so it got outta control.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Well, for me you didn't do anything wrong because if that also happen to me same thing I'll do to that b*tch or more than that... I don't care whether she's drunk or what ever her reasons, she don't have the right to sit in the lap of my boyfriend even she is my best friend.. And besides best friend don't act like that,only those who were sl*t/b*tch.. Actually,I'll punch both of them because my boyfriend also allowed that b*tch to sit in his lap 
.. But if ever I'll fight to that girl I'll make sure that I won't get hurt only her.. It doesn't good to look that I'm the one who start the fight but then I end up hurting myself, that's stupid you know.. So, I'll make sure that she can't hurt me.. 
Well, I can imagine now what will happen to that b*tch if there's someone will sit in the lap of my boyfriend..
.. But if ever I'll fight to that girl I'll make sure that I won't get hurt only her.. It doesn't good to look that I'm the one who start the fight but then I end up hurting myself, that's stupid you know.. So, I'll make sure that she can't hurt me.. Well, I can imagine now what will happen to that b*tch if there's someone will sit in the lap of my boyfriend.. 
lol rip into her!
@ayumitakashi (4462)
• United States
1 Sep 08
I don't really like to start problems with people and fight. But if something like that had happened then I would have gotten extremely pissed off. I think that I am a jealous person by nature although I've never been in this type of situation or had a boyfriend. But I would have probably slapped her and then gone to my boyfriend and slapped him too. If she tried to do something then I would probably punch her so hard that I would send her flying. I think it's really stupid that she had to sit on someone's lap to put her shoes on. Especially on a guy who had a girlfriend. Coudln't she sit on the floor if there were no more seats?
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@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Good day... It's not wrong to question her and be jealous because her intentions isn't good. For fighting her over your boyfriend well, I can't say is wise. I believe that your boyfriend also should avoid her or maybe he also want that to happen, to have something to do with her.
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@nightangle (80)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
I believe your bf know her already but, still your bf is to be blame and all you have to do still is to be patient then dont late your anger eat you.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
1 Sep 08
Were you wrong for questioning it? NO! Maybe wrong about fighting, though. The problem is not the tart, dear one. The problem is your boyfriend, because he allowed it to happen. If he was worth anything at all, he'd have been the one to ask her WTF? and not you. He may give you a lame excuse like he wanted to see if you'd get jealous, yada,yada,yada. From my older male perspective, I'd say it's time for you to get a new boyfriend, one who respects you better 
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
18 Sep 08
yeah you are probably right i havn't seen him much since.. i was not impressed at all.
@mommamusic (882)
• United States
1 Sep 08
No good for you i would have done the same thing,that is just down right disgusting,some people have no respect.
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
18 Sep 08
lol thanks i think i was kinda in the right she started trouble by mucling in on my man.
@rodelbulan (594)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
What a terible scene! I did'nt experience that yet but I admit I got jealous sometimes.. But the first time i felt it, i openly told that to her... that time, we open all our concerns and i just realized that its just a matter of trust that will stop me from jealous much. You know what, that day, we get a paper and we wrote that we will trust each other and will hinder things that will make me or her to jealous... you know what, its effective! Whenever i got jealous i just remembered the event that I signed in an agreement and it helps! For me both partners should work for this kind of normal problem... trust, respect, amd most of all faithfullness that will make your relationship an exciting and worthy to keep. It is possible, believe me... just be transparent with one another. To all, happy mylotting!
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
1 Sep 08
Well I don't think I'll get jealous if something like that happened with me .. If am really into this guy then I may get jealous a little...
But I would never invite her my self for any fight or something ..well not in the first place at least. I would ask her very calmly with a little bit of bitc*y tone that she can sit some where else to wear her shoes.
If she is so proud of her act I would just pull her up and help her sit some where else.. yea if she still shows some tantrums to me.. I would just punch her on her face!!
This is why girls generally don't mess with me. lol
This is why girls generally don't mess with me. lol
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
15 Sep 10
Hi, dont_pick_your_nose. No you were not wrong at all. What is wrong is the fact that this girl chose to sit between your boyfriends legs. She could have had sat anywhere that she wanted to. But she chose to sit between his legs. She is asking for trouble now. She probably did it to make you jealous. And I would have told him that he would be sleeping alone tonight@! My thing is, why didn't he try to push her off of sitting between his legs?
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
1 Sep 08
well, i don't know about the fighting and all. i would have said something and told her hey sit somewhere else. plus if she's sitting between your man's leg i think i would be upset at him just as well. myself i would have told her no right off. so it's takes two to tangle..
but yeah wrong for getting into a fist fight for sure, and wrong for not getting mad at your man as well.
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@alicjaxxxxx (22)
•
1 Sep 08
Oh my god I would kill her! I don't think you did wrong I would do dis same. I just hope you and your boyfriend will be ok.
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
The fighting is a bit wrong but who can blame you anyway? My blood would be boiling too if I were in your place. It's just stupid that she has to sit between your guy's legs to tie her shoes. Really dumb. I hope she learned her lesson. That'd be really embarrassing for her. Serves her right. :)
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