Had you ever hated your parents?
By pengpendi
@pengpendi (49)
China
August 31, 2008 11:22pm CST
A few days before,i put one trouble of me on mylot,three friends give me some good ideas,thanks for them.i have already my choice,now.
i have another promble here.when i was young,my family is very poor,i was a student in a school.when teacher told me to give fees for education,i was very worried.because i knew my mother would abuse me for that.but i was just a little girl at that time,i have no ability to earn eough money affording my teaching.so i became one sad girl from then.at the same time,i became hating poor fairly.unless i graducated from college,my character is inturned and blue.it's bad for my life and my job,i can't keep good relations with other people,although my ability on other spects is good.for a long time,i subject this to my family and my parents,they hadn't told me how to be a strong and kind person.All that becomes unless meeting my husband,i gained the happiness.i want to know if you have the same experience with me?and can you tell me and other friends on mylot why?
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5 responses
@bobet17 (158)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I dont have any angry to my parents,I dont hate them instead I love them very much,because they love and accept me for who I am when I came in thier life,all the care and best things in life Ive experienced it to them,thats why I grew up as a good person,have a good heart to other,and that is because of parents.
@luckycat (220)
• Bolivia
1 Sep 08
Well,I hated them before.
They had problems,i mean they have marriage crisis.My mom just kept telling me how bad my dad was,i was so sick with it. That's your own problems?why stress on me?then ,they divorced.Few days later, i had to give the tuition,it's pretty high.I asked my mom ,she said,asked ur dad,i turned to my dad,he said,he didn't have so much money. I didn't know what to do.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 08
I got into several fights with my parents, but I never actually hate them. I have once thought that I might hate them because they makes me do what I don't want to do, and I thought that they were ruinning my life. But after some times, I thought that it wasn't their fault. I could have done something, and I didn't. Maybe I was enjoying it too, and after I thought about it over and over again. I gained something in my life. I gained something good and I have to thank them because of that.
My parents are not really permissive, and they're conventional persons. But when they knew that I have different s3xual orientation, they didn't outcasted me, thet just sad that blame themselves, but they accepted me as I am.
I love my parents and i told them that they're the best parents I ever had
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
1 Sep 08
Hi friend,I got loving parents and my father is no more.He passed away 3 months back.I love them very much as they brought me up with great love and care.But sometimes when we are affected financially it happens,life becomes dull and parents themselves will be having a tough time.so dont worry we'l never be having a tough time through out our lives.Ups and downs are normal and natural.Happy mylotting.
