my boyfriend court my friend who also my classmate!!!
By ehlsie
@ehlsie (730)
Philippines
September 1, 2008 12:34am CST
i have a experience to my ex-boyfriend before and i want to share this to you...(he's not my boyfriend anymore,by the way...)Our realtionship lasts for almost one year and six months, 1 year and hald to be exact..I had a smooth relationshipbefore, but one time when i was waiting for my next subjectwhen one of my classmate came to ma and chat with me...At first we have a nice conversation then suddenly our conversation went to my lovelife...I told her that i have no problem we.re happy right now ( without knowing that my boyfriend was started courting my friend whose also my classmate that time a month a go and till now!!!and my friend does't told it to me!!!)my classmate told me everything what's going on with my boyfriend and my friend(my friend is also her friend that's why he know's everything)I was really shocked...At first i don't believe that suddenly i realized that when my boyfriend went to our classroom he talked to my friend first before me, i thought it was nothing between them but im wrong...I cried a lot coz he's my first boyfriend.
But you know what I do, I talked to them together and showed to them how angry i am to them and hw they cheated me! and not only me, coz my friend has only a boyfriend and he also doesnt know what heppening..I told to them that they'll never be happy. I also told to my friend how i treated her as a good friend (because before their house is too far in our school so she stayed to our house most of the time.) How i treated her right and treat her as my sister but all she did was she cheated on me and hurt me a lot...
after that scene, i never talked to my friend anymore and my boyfriend??/I dumped him right a way!!!
just want to share this to everybody...
happy reading!!!
thanks for the comment!
3 responses
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Wait a minute. This is a different guy right? This is not the one you're having trouble with because of his bestfriend?
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
yes..this is my first boyfriend...(now my ex boyfriend..)The other one whose i'm having trouble with her bestfriend and still my boyfriend.(i never tried to talk about the relationship and treatment of her bestfriend...)coz im afraid to lose him...I can bear all the pains just he'll be mine...I really don't know till now what to do...
This my other post is just to share my pastexperience in a relationships...
(i am a really broken hearted...don't youthink?)
thanks!
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Thank goodness this is a different guy.. I hope you talk it out with him because you're the one suffering. I hope you fix it already so that you two can be happy. :) Where do you study, btw?
@ghing029 (51)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
same thing happen to me.. my 1st bf now ex-bf did almost the same thing but, he did not courted my friend.. they usually communicate through text messages.. at first I know that they are exchanging text messages but one time one of my friend told me that they are having a secret affair.. the text message is not just a text message but they are talking about S*X it is what we called SOT..
I was so shocked and too angry for both of them.. i confronted them but they denied everything.. but after a few days the girl told me everything infront of our friends.. they are all blaming her of what they did.. I cried but still keep our friendship..
I haven't speak to my exbf after that.. I waited till he broke up with me.. I cried but only for a while..
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
ouch!they both s*cks!having an secret SOT is doing stupidity!!!!They makes their self stupid...even me or every girl who'll happen the same thing like you will be angry and very mad to them!But the nice thing is you still preserve your friendship to your friend and dumped your stupid, idiot ex boyfriend!!!haha...I have still a communication to my friend who cheated on me, but it's unlike before...
@redchase (347)
•
1 Sep 08
wow im so sorry that happened to you. i think i would really hurt from something like that but not to the extent that i would say i'd never be happy again. i think happiness comes from yourself and not from others, if it does, i think something might be wrong. its a good thing you broke up with him right then and there, at least i hope you learned a bit about yourself while you were in that relationship and that you know the sort of things you arent willing to tolerate. i wish you good luck in your love life, and dont worry about it too much, boys come and go.
