Do you care much about who you are seen with?
@powerbrokenape (399)
United States
September 1, 2008 1:13am CST
When a person is hanging out with you in public and they are trying to fit into your ways of talking and acting, will you feel annoyed being seen with the person if they look strange? I mean, if the person is able to pull of being a person that seems cool to hang out with, will you still feel annoyed being seen with them if they don't look good? I know with some people, I sometimes, but rarely, will not want to talk to them based on the way they dress. But only if it's because they're dressed in a way that seems way out of the norm. :/ I mean, if they have a bad style I don't mind that at all, but if they wear a dog collar around their neck, hot topic shorts with a shirt that says "Marylin Manson", then it seems hard for me to want to have a conversation with the person in public. If the person is dressed at least somewhat normal compared to how most people dress, then it seems easier for me to want to be seen with them in public, even if they don't look like a very attractive person or whatever word you want to use. XD Anyway, do you mind being seen with certain peoplein public? If you do, who are the kinds of people that you don't want to be seen with?
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@bournecaindelta (2477)
• India
1 Sep 08
I have very less friends and the people with whom i hang out do not try to act like some other person just to look cool. They tend to be cool in their own way and it doesn't look awkward even if they are a bit off the hook because they are being what they are.
Most of the people I see outside are posers and trying to fit into some one else's skins. Always trying to Ape others and trying to be cool, instead of being themselves and enjoying their life.
bourne
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
1 Sep 08
not really... it's like I don't really care about what other people would say because for me i hang out with someone for some good reason.. perhaps he or she may be weird in a way or two but if I'm hanging out with that person the there must be something about that person that makes him or her special that's not in a weird way... besides I'm sort of the kind of person who won't judge people just by the way they look or dress... I usually dig deeper and if I find a jewel somewhere inside that person then I would surely treasure our friendship even if people look down at him or her... in fact I'd fight for that person if I have to...