Do you consult your partner in decision making?
By dong1970
@dong1970 (1572)
Philippines
12 responses
@saroodebolan (408)
• Pakistan
2 Sep 08
yes i do sometimes... but it is not necessary that i accept his decision, well almost all of the time i have decided my self n i just tell him
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
yes. I always seek help with my boyfriend when it comes in decision making. especially in financial matters. he is really good in handling money, and so he's so smart. I believe that I would never go wrong in decision making once I ask his help.
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Well I am a woman. I usually consult my partner but i have more or less made a decision already if you know what I mean. I do the consultation in such a way that my partner thinks he made the decision(ha ha ha). But there some mattetrs where i defer to his ecpertise and so I consult before making a final decision.
@property (453)
• United States
1 Sep 08
i come to my mate and ask His opinion prior to making any significant decision. When i already know his stance on something i proceed accordingly. We find it easier to navigate through life unified. i would never go against His wishes, life is just easier when we work together.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
1 Sep 08
Recently, not really. Yesterday, my boyfriend decided to do things without me, and it was the same thing today, so I did the same.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
In any major decision, it is a MUST we talk about it first. Whether it is to get a new phone or a new gadget, etc. For the small decisions, I make sure I let my husband know what I plan to do. We are very open about everything in the relationship that we help each other in times of need
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I do. I actually do it almost all the time. Consulting my wife about certain decision would make her feel more important. In that way, she becomes more empowered as a woman. We really manage to talk about all the choices we should be making at home and outside.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I always do when it comes to major decisions like buying a property or investing in a certain business or what to do with some problems in the job. I believe it is necessary to consult my hubby because two heads are better than one. It is also a way of showing my respect to him. On small matters however which I believe I can handle and will not offend my husband if I would do, I do the decision myself.
@mythic0805 (90)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Well if you're talking about a gir/boyfriend relationship, I dont think you have to consult your partner unless it concerns the both of you. But when you're in a marriage, you have to talk things out esp[ecially major decisions, minor decisions, one can decide but out of respect, you still have to inform your partner.