Decisions decisions!!

Well as you know I have a similar problem with men and I did in fact start a relationship once with a guy who had feelings for me who I did like but it was so platonic in the ned we just went back to being friends but everyone said go for it as he wasn't my usual (which used to be wild bad boy types) type that I went for. Who knows all you can do is give it a go and see really. This other guy who I have yet to have my date date with I have known for a while and is not really my type but who knows they say opposies attract and I have left my wild child days behind (almost LOL) so you never can tell. I think we recognise a soul connection sometimes with people which is a love but we concentrate so much on the relationship that it gets lost somewhere I suppose. I suppose what I am trying to say is don't analysis and go with the flow of it and see what happens. I really hope all that made sense. Huggles. Ellie :D

Me and ste are very different hes shy and introvert and i'm well me!, He's tall i'm short lol no but we don't really have that much in common if i'm honest i like to travel he doesn't. I read he doesn't, i'm creative he doesn't know the meaning of the word. If it wasn't for footy and our similar sense of humour i don't know what we'd talk about lol. I didn't find ste attractive when i first met him, if fact we diliked each other (i was friends with his brother). We lost touch after our tennage years and when we met up again we got on well but it was nothing more then bit by bit we grew closer but i still only thought of him as a friend until he kissed me. Even then admittedly i didn't think it would be anything serious and here we are today 10 years on. So in answer to your question i do think opposites attract makes it interesting and sometimes you surprise yourself who you fall for. I would be careful about that hun if you really like him great but if you cross the line sometimes (not always) it ruins it and you can never go back. Sometimes it's not worth loosing the friendship (and sometimes it is just depends how close you are lol)

Hi munchkin This is so very me! I guess, Love is the most weird thing on eart. You never know how and why we fall for anyone. It follows no rules, no ways. When it is to happen it just happens! I have ended up being stupid each time I tried to figure out the whys and hows. And if you are happy with him try to spend more time and see it works or not. See the J factor as well - that's important in love. And you will understand. Its just a matter of time. Happy loving

hi munchkin, as long you are happy being with this guy then you have to go for it. sometimes we set certain standards to to the person that we will love but one's the person that would make us happy comes along we tend to let go of these standards. what matters the most is you are happy and you laugh together. better be with someone who makes you laugh than with someone who will make your life miserable. hope i was able to help you out with this one. my best regards!!! wishing for your happiness friend. :)

Sometimes people didn't see the "gold" in front of their face because they're to busy searching for other gold in other places ... I hope you already find the right person, but everything should be convinced enough for you to decide Have a nice dayyyyyyssss !!!

Well...i cant say about opposites attract or not ....as i have never been frnds with anyone totally opposite in nature to me.....though i have a cousin who always does or talks things that i tend not to...but i have never had a fight with her ....but if she was`nt my cousin i dont think i would have been friends with a person like that....but there`s one thing for sure if opposites dont attract neither do similar natures attract...its all about how comfortable you are with that person... I mean even if he is opposite to you, if he makes you comfortable and never forces his instincts to you...i think its a perfect guy to be with....so good luck..!!

Simple Dad advice Munchkin. Do YOU like him. Does he make you laugh. Do you want to be with him. Why rush into anything just be friends, have a few dates and who knows. Opposites do attract. The Boss and I are totally different. She's happy and smiley, I'm a miserable old git. But despite that we love each other - even though there was that time in Epping Forest (I walk she doesn't or rather didn't ) when as she was shuffling on her bottom across a fallen tree lying over a storm drain she shouted "I must have been drunk when I said that I'd marry you". She was if I recall correctly!!

hi munchkin I know opposites attract and I was an introvert, very shy and not able to really speak up and I met my solar opposite who was out going, friendly. extroverted and charming. so we got married and it was a perfect fit. We were married for 34 years, good years and a great marriage

it is very possible,make sure you know him really good before you proceed.

Hey munch! Well now, what do you mean by "different"? My bf is different then the guys that I normally pick! He's actually a "nice" guy! He doesn't treat me the way I would like him to, but he doesn't abuse me. Of course opposites attract! There must be something that you like about him in the first place or you wouldn't be hanging with him. Only you know what kind of feelings you have. You have to be the one to sort them out. Are you having these feelings for him because he's the only one whose treating you nice right now? If that's the reason then you will end up hurting him if he really cares for you and you will lose a good friend. Again, only you know how you feel. Take your time to figure it out and by all means, take it slow. My bf/roomate and I were really good friends first and we are best friends now. That's what makes me want to be with him. Our friendship is so strong. When he says he loves me as a friend he doesn't realize just how important that is. You have to be a friend first, everthing else is just extra.

Hmmm...I'm not really much of a love guru but if there's one thing i can tell you, that's TRY. I mean, you'll never really know unless you give it a try. Sometimes things that work out with other people could not work with you, or things that dont work out with others may work with you. So the only way to really find out for yourself if opposites do attract or not is to give it a go.

make your own decisions!...but b4 you decide it..think 10 TIMES ok..so that you can conclude tha fact..opinion on your own!...but he is your best friend!,,you really know him..you have the what we call ACES!..whether you decide it or ignore him!..hope i help yo..thnx

Munchkin, I think you need to let go of the idea of your "type." It seems like he may be your type, just in a different sense than you're used to. To me, your type is the person who makes you happy. It's a person you can see yourself growing old with. Its that person who can always make you laugh, smile, and just feel better by being by their side. Sometimes it's the person we least expect who turns out to be the one. In my opinion, just see where things go. Since you're close with him, you have to be careful. When you hang out/talk, try to be in touch with yourself and your emotions. You'll figure out if you have true feelings for him or not. Just be careful not to fall into wanting to date him because you're lonely and he gives you the attention you crave. That wouldn't be fair to him. But in my experience, opposites definately do attract! In fact, psychological studies show that people who are exactly the same, and people who are polar opposites are the couples who tend to work out. Polar opposites work because they balance each other out and help each other see a different perspective. Good luck! Keep us posted!