how to handle this?
By ivieigen
@ivieigen (98)
Philippines
September 1, 2008 8:21am CST
tomorrow ill be having my examination but i cant focus with my studies since i and my bf just fought with some little things. he didn't send me messages that causes me more anxious.. what i should do? how am i suppose to handle this case? can any body help me?
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4 responses
@asiatic_r10 (265)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 08
Hello,
I used to experiences the same way too. I am giving you suggestion that works for me in the past.
First, you have to realize that it means you really love your bf and it's a good positive feeling.
Second, think about the fight with a clear mind and try to find out what bad things that you have said or done to him that probably hurt his feeling during the fight. After you find it:
Third, call him, apologize for whatever hurt him or made him sad/ upset and tell him that you love him so much that you cannot study for the exam tomorrow thinking about the fight. Don't argue again about the fight, just stop talking about the fight topic, just focus on your feeling to him.
If those three steps do not work, you have to set in your mind that the most important thing at the moment is your exam tomorrow, try to distract your mind from the fight by walking out for a while, listening your favorite songs, or talking to your family. After you calm down, start to study.
Hope it works, Good Luck on your exam tomorrow.
@ivieigen (98)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
thanks you for your wonderful response.. i just love it.. were actually fine now that we had talked and i also was able to take the exam.. your comment was just so inspiring.. thanks for inspiring people..Godbless! i will really put that in my mind! thanks again!
@asiatic_r10 (265)
• Indonesia
2 Sep 08
Hey, glad to know that it works!!! Hopefully you will pass your exam and celebrate it with him in a romantic place.
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
[b]well i guess what you have to do is to think about your studies first before thinking about your problem with your boyfriend because your argument with him may be settled easily but the grades can't be fixed once you don't study hard on it.
but if you can't really help it then try talking it out on him first by calling him on the phone or send him a text message.
hope everything will be well and fine.
happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]
@jhellie_baby (374)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
hi there. sorry to hear about your situation. well, in the first place, you should try your very best not to get affected because that will surely affect your concentration on your examination. tell yourself that you should study well for the exam...if that wont work then better settle your dispute with your bf so you can concentrate in your studies.
@piya84 (2580)
• India
4 Dec 08
ok this is what i am do when i encounter with such aproble....sit at one place quitely alone ...close ur eyes ...and do deep breathing for 5-10 minutes..try thi s it always work with me...ater doing this take little break..n o things wich makes u happey like listen good music...something rock..hip m hop wich can uplist ur mood.then come bak to study room :)