do you think you are a gentleman??????????????????

Hey,I can proudly say that I'm a gentleman/gentlewoman-this is my positive ego.If others like you call me ungentle,I'm not.What is gentlemanliness? To me it is not to harm others,rather tolerate silly things to avoid unnecessary quarrels and at the same time to be very bold to face any rude person.I'm very gentle as I've not yet harmed others seriously.