What if...

Philippines
September 2, 2008 12:25am CST
What if you found out that your father, that you've been respected and your role model, has an affair with another woman. What would you do?
4 responses
torchablazed
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
I would truly be hurt and disappointed at the moment, and I think I would talk to him about it. But if he refuses to talk to me on the matter, I can't do anything but respect on his decision. He is the one responsible for his action afterall.
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fwidman
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I wouldn't do anything because it is none of my business. It is between him and his wife and no one else.
m_sm1982
@m_sm1982 (31)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
are you not going to get hurt? if ever you loved your father so much. much more than your mother?
fwidman
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I may be hurt, sure. But, it all boils down to the matter is still between him and his wife. It should be her talking to him about it. I know that if I cheated on my wife I would not appreciate my children getting into it
m_sm1982
@m_sm1982 (31)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
thanks fwidman, you maybe right. i guess time will heal everything.
jammyt
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Well, that would depend on WHEN on when the affair happened. If it happened way long before I was born, then I wouldn't mind it as long as the connections are already cut. If it happened at present time, that would be a different story. I would feel hurt and betrayed by my Father. And maybe I would lose respect but of course, he's still my father no matter what.
tewiawi
@tewiawi (63)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
I'll be going crazy (LOL). Seriously, I would confront my father and speak out for my mom. Though it's their business but hey, it's affecting the entire family you know? We, as their children, have to play our roles too. We have our right. And if I could speak to that woman,then I would. I love my mother, my family, and I don't want it to be ruined just like that by some home-wrecker woman. We need to fight for our RIGHT.