can you control your temper in any situation?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
18 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Well, I have a hair trigger temper but I usually don't just burst.I set out to find and execute the proper revenge.What is so funny is that most of the time , the best way to execute the proper revenge is to do nothing.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
7 Sep 08
If I Had to be nice to someone who was mean to me, I would get more angry that it would matter if they were shamed or not. i would feel worse and more vengeful than I was in the first place.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
wel you know certain people deal with anger different from other so how you deal with your anger maybe the waqy you know how be blessed
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
7 Sep 08
i find also that when a person is mean to you if you would treat them with kindness it makes them shame.
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@rosesthorns14 (803)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
For my temper or anger management, I would meditate to calm myself. There was a time that when I feel like I wanted to scream, I was not able to do it, instead I would just walk back and forth. Another option for me is to deal with my hammer, some old nails and some spare woods. I would nail the woods with a hammer and let my anger out.
Have a nice day and happy mylotting!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
19 Sep 08
I am a nervous person but I can keep my temper in most situation. I always try to see things from an another perspective and try to see the positive side of things. However when I am at home my wife really manages to burst my temper when she is a bit edgy and talks to me in a rough way. Most probably my anger would be bottled up and it is easy to express it with your family members in whom you feel relaxed with.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
thats true they vent on the first thing you say to them and just let go on you and say all these things you know you can,t take back saying iam sorry they did mean to say those thiing please for give them you are mad now wanting to let go on them now. so having your temper under control will make life easyer in most cases. thank you have a bless day
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
well you need to go to a field and just yell and let all that stress out it not good to hold stress inside you need to need to vent. don,t hold back if you have somthing to say do it.you can tell a person what you think in a respectful way with yelling and screaming let your issues be known to that person. thank you be blessed
@alicjaxxxxx (22)
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2 Sep 08
I can't control my temper in any situation.I know it's bad coz every time me and my boyfriend are arguing i always shout at him. im horrible to every1 and I can't control it!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
3 Sep 08
have you tried to pray about your temper.take deep breathes and count to 10 when you get upset. tell yourself you are not going to get anger.to much anger is not good it can cause a heart attack yelling as you say you do.
@divinchris (2449)
• India
7 Sep 08
I can control my temper.The best way to do say is to love nature,look at the green surroundings around you and that will teach you how to be at peace even at times of anger and frustration.Think twice before making any false decision that could hurt you even more than what you have did to others.Controlling your temper is in your hands.Cheers to all.Happy mylotting
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
that wonderful you can control your temper because many cannot you have found something that works for you but will it work for others.so people are crazy when they get angry saying all sorts of thing.some say they are christian but when they get mad they lat all sort of cusing come out there mouth you would not believe what they are saying cusing like a salior.so with all the frustration going on in the world you can see why people are so easy to get upset.you be bless thank you for sharing.
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
2 Sep 08
Yes, I think I can. I am a person with a calm way of life. I never get stressed up. Of course I do get upset but not in a bad manner. I have always thought I would be a god person to have in a time of crises, disaster situations and times like that. I think that it is better to be calm and try to sort things out when needed. It has worked for me many times. I work as full time assistance nurse so I guess I am in the right profession, and are a great help when needed.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
2 Sep 08
what do you do too calm yourself if you do get angry?what method do you take
@chechuva (1275)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
most of the time i control my temper. im the kind of person you don't want to talk too when im angry. i tend to say all the mean things when im angry. that's why i always try my best to control my temper.
but if a person provokes me to really get mad, i really make sure that he's going down and regret that he provokes me!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
7 Sep 08
i heard that but i have a small tip you know when you have a fire in the fire place and if you dont put no wood on that fire it will go out right.well if you don,t let whomever provoke you the fire will go out/
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
7 Sep 08
i understand in todays world there is so many things to stress you out
@m_sm1982 (31)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
well, it all depends. If I'm with my family, and Im not in the mood, I really can't control my temper. But most of the times, I do, especially with other people. Getting angry is a long process for me. But once it burst out....BOOm! You will regret the day you made me angry.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
but you are runing your blood pressure up each and every time you let your anger get out of control.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
thats true most of the time you say things you dont mean and you cant take those words back now you have damaged your relationship all because you cannot control your temper life is to short to just let go like that thank you joy for sharing.
@tewiawi (63)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Sometimes I can, sometimes I can't. It will depend on what made me angry. But as much as possible I don't want to talk. Don't push me to talk about what happened or I will blow away. Just enough time to cool me down, that will make me speak out to avoid unwanted words to say.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
this is a good way to handle anger a lot people just want to be left alone so they can get them self together
@faln_angel1205 (1192)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I think everyone has lost control of their temper at one piont in their life, and if they havent well they will before its over...its just part of human nature. Nobody is perfect and can honestly say they NEVER have or will lose their temper. I am fortunate that I have only done it a couple of times, but nothing to the point where i have been physically harmful to someone, when i lose my temper its in the form of extremely loud yelling adn very harsh words that i dont really mean but they tend to come out. I am not proud of this at all, and have learned to walk away from things before I get to that point, but it has happened in the past and as much as i want to say it wont happen again, noone can ever be sure of that...no matter how hard they try.
@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Sep 08
It depends. Sometimes people can't control because of their emotions and different levels of anxiety. In my point of view, I only loose my temper if someone was very annoying but I can handle it. I just keep it in my head and not in my feelings.
