Do yuu Feel Offended When some one Discourage you from doing...
@sweethomecatring (1563)
India
September 2, 2008 11:43am CST
Friends,
I am inviting you to share with me how you react when a person you like more discourage you from doing some thing. I have found many people feels offended when some one close to them try to discourage them to do some thing which is not good for them. At my work place one of my mate always make mockery of others junior to him which I do not like because at least he is also junior to me I never make his mockery. When ever I try to advise him not to repeat such things He feels offended to my advise and he goes on to do more. The result is that now other people have stopped talking to him even on the official business and he has been left isolated in the Office.
If some one advise me on some of my errors I welcome them and I find that timely correction of a error always pay and every body respect me at my office.
How do you feel offended or not.
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@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
When somebody close to me such as friend or family members discourage me from doing something or advise me, I am not offended at all. I ponder on what they are saying and I think that they are after my own good, so there's no need to be offended. Sometimes we don't know how others get affected on what we say or do, the people around us usually notice that. So people that are close to us or those who have concern on us would advise us, so we should not take that against them.
@radon1284 (140)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
You know what i am one of this kind of person but i feel i am not feel im isulated
For me there is not bad thing to do as long you dont hurt other people i do what i wanted to do
even if others discourage me i will still do it this is my way of achieving goals in life
Even my parents cant stop me and the best way im proving to them i am not wrong
But in these case maybe he feel like what i feel proving someone that he is worthy
all what can i say is let him do what he want after all he will be responsible of what hed did.
thanks
