Psychopath Best Friend

United States
September 2, 2008 12:12pm CST
So I recently found out from one of my friends at school that my best friend who moved, stabbed 3 people and nearly killed them, he is now labeled a Psychopath at my school, so my question is: What would you do if you found out your best friend or someone you know was a psychopath and started killing people?? i mean i wont change my views on my best friend since i dont know why he would do something like that. but I wanna know what you guys/gals would do???
3 responses
• Canada
2 Sep 08
If this person is your best friend then you know him very well. You know his deep dark secrets and accept him for him. Why don't you have a sit down with him and find out the real reason why he did it or even if he did. Who know's it could just be a huge rumor. If people are labling him a physcho and you don't think he is then screw what everyone else is saying about him and be there for him as a friend. If he really did do it and for no good reason then you should suggest to him to go see a phychiatrist. It might be something rough for him to hear but tell him he needs the help and you'll be there for him 100% of the way. I had to admit one of my friends to the phych ward of a hospital once and I went to visit him all the time. Sometimes they just need a little help but if you know inside, he's a good guy then you stillneed to be there for him.
• United States
2 Sep 08
I do my best friend very well, i've known him since kindergarden, well i know some of his deep dark secrets, yeah your right he might not have done anything wrong he could be blamed but not have done anything, i dont believe he is one and i will never change my mind on that and no one at my school would do that, yeah your right i think ill give his parents a call and tell them to do that, i know he is a good guy. thx for the response ^_^
@tinkerick (1257)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I think that's one of those things that you really don't know what you would do unless it actually happens. However, in my mind, I don't think my feelings for the friend would change. Just the view of them. I would still want to offer the friendship and try to understand their reasonings, and help them recover and become a better person. The worst thing you can do for someone like that is to drop the relationship. That is a time when they need a friend the most. So that they have someone to hear them and be on their side. If further down the line the behavior does not change for the better, than you may need to consider distancing yourself bit by bit. But on the first offense, it's probably best to be the comforting friend.
• United States
2 Sep 08
my feelings havent changed or my friend. i wanna be there more for him but i have no money to go and visit him to talk to him and my parents are being really stupi and not letting me borrow the money cuz they said ill end up getting killed. yeah i agree if things start to go out of hand then ill start to distant myself.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I would wonder what happened. What led to this? What happened that he felt the need to kill those people? And I probably would look for signs I might have missed wondering if I could have stopped this from happening. And yes, I probably would change my view of my so called best friend, since I obviously didn't know him as well as I thought.