confuse
By jollibee
@jollibee (57)
United States
September 2, 2008 8:08pm CST
what if your friend husband is betraying your friend? and you saw it,hear it and its your husband daughter or daughter your inlaw .will you tell it to your friend? and also he is your friend. in other words thier both your friend.
5 responses
@scarlylove (61)
• United States
3 Sep 08
yes i think she would feel even more hurt if she found out you knew and never told her!
evenif he was my friend too hes still a cheating dog so tell your friend!
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@mchbaby4 (4)
• United States
3 Sep 08
i think u shud talk to the guy first and try to explain wat he is doing is wrong!!
u shud tell him that if he rly loves her that he shud stop cheating!!
and once he does that to tell her..
i noe that it will b hard 4 him to tell her but its better 4 her to hear it from him than to hear it 4rm sum1 else!!
thats a very sticky and hard situation!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
@jollibee (57)
• United States
3 Sep 08
thanks guys for the response. thier relationship with his wife is not doing good right now. I think he like to divorce her. but she is from Philippines which i came from and we have to stay married for 3 years or else we'll send back to Phils. that's holding him back co'z they were just married last year.. And the girl that his seeing right now is my husband daughter. i don't want to broke my family now and i don't want to start thier fight. I will stay quite as long as i can..thanks and have fun here
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Oh this is hard, to get caught in between. If I were in your place I would check my loyalty and what is right. If I saw what the husband did, I would invite my friend (the wife)and talk to her. I would also ask her to swear not to tell her husband that the news came from me. I would tell her that I honestly do not want to get involved but as a friend, I felt that I should let her know.
Even if the guy is also my friend but what he did was wrong, I would not tolerate it. For one I do not want it to happen to me.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
3 Sep 08
[i]ohhh..that is very tough! hmm...I don't like to be part of their problem but it is also unfair for the girl not to know about this...I will wish she will be sensitive enough to notice it!
I will maybe send her an unknown letter if this is the case![/i]
@JLMack (68)
• United States
7 Sep 08
I am not sure what exactly you are saying. Your friends husband is cheating on her. And He is suppose to be your friend also. Well first off, if he is cheating on your friend you need to decide if you still want to be his friend or hers because there will be a break-up soon.
And he is cheating with your husbands daughter or daughter-in-law. Boy what a mess, what does your husband think? As far as telling your friend that is a hard one. Would your husband tell his son? These are all hard questions.
How long have you been friends? Are they flanting it out in the open?
I am sorry for your Femal friend and for you that you had to be the one to wittness this betrail, there are no easy answers and people will get hurt in the end. Just be a Good friend and be there when she needs you.
I hope things work out with for your friend. God Bless
