Hurting Someone

Is it impossible to go through life without hurting someone? That is a big question I keep asking myself. I guess everyone of us knows the feeling of being hurt. You can learn and grow from experiencing hurt on both ends. You can't runaway from this stuff.

There are people who's mission in life is to annoy and hurt you. I am not one of them because I am not that kind of person. Before I deliver a comment I will first say "excuse me for my words" or "no offense meant".

I never hurt other people in intention. It is not good doing that. What we will feel if other people hurt us or people we know.

Ohhh GOD gets angry if you heart someone intentionally. So I never ever think of it Thanks Ganesh

Getting hurt by someone you truly love is the most painful feelings in the world. For me, since I already unintentionally hurt someone, I do have some guilts. I don't know what to do, karma is there. And now, I believe that what I have done in the past, surely it will come back to you with less evidence.

unforternatly, i have hurted many people. i regret it all thought.

yes i have hurt someone when i was in a big tension ... and that person was my little brother ... because he was disturbing me like he was making funny faces .. and i give him a large slap on his face ...

I never hurt somebody but somebody hurt me :=/He was stupid cause he never think what will i felt that time.He just do what he wanted and his really selfish he only think of his happiness.Anyway i think everybody can experience that and because of that kind of experience we become so strong to face the world trials.

Sometimes we don't even know that we had hurt some one or not. When we gets too angry we say something that might not hurt your partner intentionally, as men. We are all hard hearted and will just stand alone to think bout the things that we had done and said.

did you ever feel like this.

It really depends on the person that you have a relationship with. Its either they tried to go on to the relationship and maybe on the future they will learn to love you. or for them it was really just part of fun not knowing that he or she hurts already the person who is trying to work out the relationship because of love and still waiting and praying that in time he or she will be loved by that person.

When I was a high school student, for some reason I broke the friendship with a close friend. I do feel guilty about hurting her, although we make up now. The only thing I want to say is never hurt your friends no matter how angry you are at that time. Calm down, you may find a better solution. Best wishes.

While it's true that some people intentionally strive to hurt others, this is often not the initial intent. More often than not, I am sure it is more a result of feelings changing. Additionally, many people get into relationships when they have mixed feelings and then feel guilty about saying anything once they decide they want out. When this happens, they may draw it out and take a long time to say what's on their mind... only to worsen the situation. Honesty is the best policy, although it is not one that is widely practiced. Indeed, I am sure that this is the cause of most cheating cases. The individual looses interest in their mate but doesn't want to break it to them... so they continue to date that person while pursuing their own desires.

well i hurt my ex fiancee before..i left him out of revenge coz he broke up with me with out any valid reason then after a year we get back together then a year later he broke up with me again without any valid reason..so i got fed up so i eloped with a guy i don't love but eventually i fell inlove with him and we got married..now we're having our firt child it's a girl her name is francheska

Yes, and I felt horrible afterwards and I apologized for it.

I have not hurt anyone. But i have seen the scenarios where people just mix with you for own advantage. some peopel always want to enjoy time and thus enter any relationship without any committment. so if the other person feels bad, they have no hindrance in breaking up.

I also don't understand these situations in society these days. I feel sorry for the victims of the people who do this often. They are just thinking of love as a game and nothing about serious stuff. Happy posting.

I once did this before with my ex-boyfriend.. Actually, it is his fault because of being insecure and being a jealous person.. At first, I though he is a good person but as days and weeks goes by instead of falling in love with him the more I hate him.. He always jealous to everything like my friends (whether boy or girl), my cousins, family, classmates and to strangers.. He was always freaking out if he saw me I'm with other guy or even talking to my friends..He always there anywhere I go.. I don't have freedom to do what I want.. I always need to asked him a permission to do this or to that.. I can't decide for my own.. If ever I will do the things I want he will really get mad at me and start acting like an id1ot.. So, I decided to broke up with him but then at first he don't like.. Since I can't stand with his behavior and attitude, he made me no choice but to hurt him.. Well, I told him all the things that I felt for him and all the anger that I had for him.. Then I started to avoid myself to him.. I don't care what he will feel until finally he just let me go.. I know that he is so mad at me until now and the same I feel for him.. Of course, I am very guilty of all the things that I said and done to him but that is the only way I can think of so that he will let me go.. Well, until now we are not still talking and I don't think so that I will talked to him.. Actually, I really don't want to talked to him anymore...

yes, i did it because i got mad and to call it quits, i made him angry too. lol. it was really crazy but we're good friends now though.

i'd met this guy thru chat and he became my boyfriend afterwards..we're in love with each other ( that i thought) but im wrong he's in a relationship before we had one..i broke up with him but he don't like coz he said he love me more than he's girlfriend.he tried so much to win me back but i didn't give in..i didn't feel sorry or guilty for him coz in the first place he's the one who first fooled me..(".)