Would you reject someone you LOVE because thats the right thing to do???

Yes, I will do. If rejecting the person I love most is the rightest thing to do then I will. Love can wait for the right time, right place and right situation. If it is not yet, then I will reject it first.

hi there. well, now a days, that is not a new situation. but for me, i will really fight for my feelings, especially when i know that i am right, and what i am doing wont hurt anyone. What we truly feel may not be conceived by others, so it is only us that knows what is best for us:)

It is hard thing to do. but I have seen many people are at situation where they have no other way out rather than sacrificing live. I ahve not been into any relationship. so i have not checked it yet.

I think that even though you love someone you must make decisions wisely based on what lies ahead and which would be better for you. Imagine this, if you have an affair with someone and you have kids, would you leave your kids to grow up being raised alone by your former partner? Aren't you afraid that one day your children will have this resentment to you that you left them for another person? Yes sometimes love really arrives at the wrong time but of course it's up to us to make things right for love to be right too.

I too feel it is the right thing to do. There are situations when you need to hink ahead and plan accordingly. That's what your friend did even though it is difficult for her.

you love him and he loves you, then you two get together. that's a perfect thing, but realism is always not so idea. there are some reasons to make you give up, such as parents's refuse, the public voice, age gap... you have to think of it carefully whether he is the most suitable one for you. finally, you give up him, marry a man who is not the most lover in your mind, but he is the most suitable man for you to lead a family. many years later, finally, you will plaint: what is love.

Well, if I am your friend I think I also do the same thing.. I cannot just live my husband just because I cheated him or just because I am in love with another guy.. I don't want to be a bad wife and at the same time I don't want to be unfair.. The other guy who you were saying, I don't want to be unfair to him.. He is still single and he can still find someone who might be the perfect one for him.. Someone who is single and more better than me.. I think he cannot be happy to me since if I am going with him one thing for sure there is really a big trouble.. What if I have a child/children? I don't like that they will get mad at me and look at me as a bad mother since I cheated there father.. Of course, I don't want my children to hate me just because of wrong decisions.. Maybe for others they have different views like me.. But I think this is what's best base on my opinion..

For me it is the right thing to do. No exeption wether they Love each Other so much She need to reject him.Because there is a saying story repeat itself and Dont do unto others what you dont like others to do unto and most of all no succesful relationship when there is someone you've have hurt. Because if in case she persue that relationship with this man and Leave her Husband ofcourse her husband must be in pain when this husband experiencing the pain she and her new relationship will never be happy and soon their realtionship will result also to separtion. She had a good decision and all of us must be careful in very dicision we want to make in terms of Love.Temendously Love is not a joke if somebody will play on fire . This Fire will this destroy her Life . GOD BLESS

Hi eve, about your discussion, yes, your friend did what should be the right thing to do, she's already committed, if she choose to be with the other guy, she will be judge by people no matter what is the reason. Being against the her emotion isn't easy but she just did what is the right thing to do and I salute her for that.