LOVE and HATE
@voxviennasierra (49)
Philippines
September 3, 2008 7:08am CST
Hello peeps. There was this one guy that was very close to me before that I eventually, well,like him. However,he has a girlfriend and we're real good friend so I discouraged my feeling because I know it'll be like major disaster if he knows of it. And now I'm totally over him. But my problem is I just don't know why but I am starting to dislike him to the point of hate. I don't want to talk to him or have anything that has to do with him. I am really in a dilemma. And it's so depressing because we used to be so close before,like twins. I even call him B1, and he calls me B2(You know, the bananas in pyjamas thing?)lolz, I'm really going nuts...
1 response
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Oh gosh.
You still like the guy.
Do not stop liking him, because you will end up "hating" him just to reinforce that feeling. Ahmm, sounds weird but, I guess, you kind of preventing yourself from totally liking that's why you are somehow shadowing the hate feelings on that.
That's sad because you know for a fact that there was friendship after all. Anyways, I do hope you'll get over him. Or just be friends again with him, and enjoy every moment with him but constantly remind yourself that you're just enjoying the moment because sooner or later you guys will go on separate ways and it will be sad that the moment you have spent with him will just be filled with angst.
@voxviennasierra (49)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Thanks a lot. Gosh..it's really tough times for me coz i dont feel good when i hate somebody.Especially someone i use to like. T.T
