How Do you React?

the knife - the driver's knife for protection
@rainmark (4302)
September 3, 2008 8:33am CST
During my practicum at the hall of justice, i have witnessed the case of husband and wife. The husband caught his wife on the act that making love with another man on thier house, but this man didn't disturbed them,he just relax and he text his sister to call the cops/police and he sent them to jail.I'm very impressed to this man, how can he make himself calm down, when it happened to other husband he probably killed them. So what's your reaction to this? cheers mate!
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13 responses
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
3 Sep 08
To be honest I can't believe how he manage himself to calm down, after he caught his wife on the act making love with another man! I would say that he is an "Unbelievable Man" to control himself to do silly things that he might regret! I'm pretty sure that if this happen to other husband those two people will probably flying outside the house!
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@rainmark (4302)
3 Sep 08
If that was happened to me i will freakin' out and get the knife.hope it will not happen to me coz im not calm as him.thnx for the response, cheers mate!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
3 Sep 08
In my country you can't send someone to jail for something like this unfortunately! I think it is commendable though that this man was able to remain so calm rather than end up doing something silly and incriminating himself instead. I don't think I could have been as relaxed as him in a situation like this!
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@rainmark (4302)
3 Sep 08
In our country you send them to jail coz thats adultery. in my case if that happen to me i maybe get crazy and loss my mind, thnx for responding,cheers!
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@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
3 Sep 08
Maybe this guy had been waiting for a long time to get rid of his wife, it's difficult to say. There are so many strange things going on in marriages and relationships that the story doesn't really surprise me. Maybe he set them up, introduced them to each other, hoping that this would be happening.
@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
Yes before that incident happened he already hear that his wife has an affair but he didn't believed it until he witnessed it,poor man he's been really hurt.happy myloting!
@Munchkin547 (2778)
3 Sep 08
where do you come from? I didn't know there were places where you could go to jail for adultery! I once came home to find my best friend and my boyfriend in bed together, i was obviously very upset, i didn't shout or scream though i just calmly asked them to leave and said i would be back in half an hour and they should both be gone by then ( it was my house!) I don't see the benefit of screaming and shoutingm it wouldn't change what had happened and no matter what they said to me there was nothing that was going to make me forgive them so it was pointless even talking to them let alone shouting at them! I don't feel too bad about this situation now, obviously it is upsetting to have been betrayed but i can be safe in the knowledge that they behaved really badly and i behaved like a lady. xxx
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
i came from philippines, and that case happened last November 2007. I don't really understand why men or woman doing that even they have in relationship,they are not contented sexually, yes your right, shouting and screaming nothing to do with this, so better to deal it in calm even you been betrayed.happy myloting
@ngaspero (851)
• Italy
4 Sep 08
Also hier in Italy adultery is not a crime, and is difficult to say how I would be reacted..for sure no violence, I would not like to go to jail for the infedelty of my wife..no way...may be I would call a lowyer als witness and then I would open the practise for divorce... Nun ps(but all is easy to say when you're not in such situation..)
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
I know that not everywhere adultery is crime,but some country they punish those people who committed adultery, in philippines we don't have a divorce but they are working out the annulment.cheers!
• Sweden
3 Sep 08
That a bad story sorry for those people who had this kind of problem,All i can said is WHAT A MAN! maybe he already expect that will happen and try to accept that his dont love him anymore but still cant believe that he is really calm down,maybe he think that it would not be nice if i do something to them it will cant hell my broken hearted instead he call police and let the law decided what happen to them.But for guy,But god do this for a reason maybe she is not the right person for him.
@rainmark (4302)
3 Sep 08
Very sad story and unbelievable, but it really happens in real!Good man because he just let the law decide of it coz he is thinking his kids future too. Happy myloting.cheers!
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
wow i am really amazed at how the husband was able to keep his cool. he did the right thing of sending them to jail. it is better than him being in jail.
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@ashar123 (2357)
• India
4 Sep 08
Well thats a sad story and this person sure knows what his rights are in law. He was real cool, many men would have started fighting or even kill her wife's boy friend for making love with her at her own place. He didn't even risked of putting himself as a witness as he called his sister and cops to be witness. He must have had a strong case for that. But putting them to jail staight away, thats a little difficult to understand. Many countries have different laws and rules.
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
yes, different countries,different rules, thats caught in the act, so no excuses for that and they are guilty, but it still undergo into due process of law, for gaining the rights. happy myloting.
• India
4 Sep 08
I think that husband might be very intelligent because he become aware that he can not continue with this woman in future rather then to make mess at home he preferred to send them jail rather than to do some thing at his own because by this way he has retaliated these two guilty got punishment also.This is lesson for other women like this.How you see my view point,have a nice day and comment.
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
he just did what is right, he is thinking that his children is the most important than his unfaithful wife. and yes husband just so smart to kept calm. happy myloting,cheers!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
It was good that the husband remained calm despite of what he saw. Maybe he thought too that if he let himself be carried away by anger then worse things could happen. If I'm in that situation I'll surely leave them so that I wouldn't do anything bad to them. Then I would call the police or go to them to file a case against them. I just hope this don't happens to me.
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
All i can say is he's a good man, he never let his emotions rule over him.i admire his calmness and he deal it wisely.happy myloting
@despompa (472)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
i admire him for being so cool despite the situation he's dealing with. if it happened to other man, maybe they can commit a very violent act that they will later regret. to the woman,, SHAME ON YOU!!! you shouldn't be doing that specially under the roof that you and your husband shared. you should've given your husband respect for he i think deserved it.
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
woman who did to her husband just deserved what she got, she give great emabarrasment to her family, for being not contented to one man.cheers!
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
perhaps the husband was aware of the affair his wife is having with that man even before he caught them in the act of making love and that's why he was able to control his anger. He had known about it and so he had prepared himself.I personally hate married man/woman having an affair with someone else without even considering their children and their family's future............
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@rainmark (4302)
4 Sep 08
Adultery it's ruins one's family and its disgraceful, very great embarrasment, hope it will not happen to me.
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
You know what, If the man reacts that way, i believe he is prepared for it. There might be some problems that is happening before that event happen.
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