Do you really have to be rude?

I hate you - This is Best friend's daughter when she was 2 years old. She hated that I was taking snaps of her while her mommy is so busy with work. She doesn't really want me around. So she gave me that disgusting look. lol
Philippines
September 3, 2008 11:24am CST
If you've got nothing good to say, then don't comment at all. You are not helping the community of people who just wanted to make themselves be heard and pour out their feelings. If you are so negative about a lot of things don't vent it out on people who did nothing wrong to you. There's someone here in mylot who keeps on responding some negative stuffs to other discussions. He/She replied to one of my discussions in a very sarcastic manner but I ignore it then I saw him/her again saying rude comments to other people's discussions. What's up with that? If you've got nothing good to say then leave this community alone.
3 responses
• Belgium
3 Sep 08
Just don't care about him/her... People are mad sometimes and just aggress others. If they are really rude maybe they have problems in their real life, and try to exteriorisate it here on myLot. Don't be hurt by them, they may be also just trying to ruin the fun of here. Leave them alone and go on enjoying the site ! :)
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• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Yeah! Thanks Oscuro1987. It's just that this is the first time I have ever encountered such a rude person here on MyLot. I mean, there are a lot of people here just enjoying themselves and he/she tries to ruin it. How mean could a person be? I'm sorry I can't help it, i couldn't just shut my mouth up regarding this rude behavior. I just hope the admin people would take action immediately cuz I saw one comment that he/she has been reported already.
• Belgium
3 Sep 08
Well you did the best thing you had to do.. Say nothing; because those people think they are always right and other are just stupid people. They are the stupid people, but by saying nothing, you just proove that you are the smartest :) hehe Take it on you, don't let those people ruin your morale ! never ! Again leave them alone, they don't worth your time, neither your words.
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• Philippines
3 Sep 08
You're right! I'm not gonna say another word about this again since I have already said my peace. Besides, I've already vent it out here. And I'm just happy that someone had reported his/her bad behavior. Hey! Sorry to have bothered you with my sentiments regarding this matter. Anyway, I really do appreciate your concern. See you around!
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
I think that kind of rudeness should not be tolerated here. It should be included in the TOA or is it? You could give negative comments but be cautious on what you are saying, using profanity words and hurtful words are really annoying. Maybe those who do such things are those people who needs a lot of attention. The more you are affected by them the more they teased and say negative stuffs about you and your discussions.
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• Philippines
4 Sep 08
Hi rhyannefranz! What's TOA? I'm not familiar with it. Well, as we speak, his response to one of my discussions was deleted already. I couldn't trace his/her other responses since I didn't record his/her username. So I have no way to find out if he's still a member or not. And you are so right. These people are attention seekers. Thanks for dropping by rhyannefranz. I'll see you around,OK?
• United States
3 Sep 08
Well, a lot of people see "rudeness" differently. Maybe they're just being blunt.
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• Philippines
3 Sep 08
I don't think it's just plain blunt. I really think it's rudeness. Responses like "who cares" or "who the f**k cares" and more is not being straight forward or anything. It is plain rudeness. No offense to you my dear. I've traced all of his responses to other discussions and most of them are really rude.