Is this adultery or just plain stupidity?

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So a married man is going through "a midlife crisis". He's bored with his marriage, tired of being the breadwinner for his family, but wants to still look like the "token" husband & father to everyone else around him. Secretly he opens an account with a company that specializes in setting up affairs between married men & women (like a dating service). He is told that there is no way in hell his wife will ever find out about it. EH - wrong. She comes across a credit card statement with a strange payee name on it, questions the hubby, he plays dumb. Yet she persists the issue and is ready to call the credit card company up to get the payment reimbursed. The hidden investigator in her hacks away all night to figure out this company and, uh-oh, finds out its a dating company for married men & women to have extramarital affairs. Woman again questions hubby, he's still stupid. She then tries to get onto his account by using the same old password he uses all the time, and bang, the bad hubby has been CAUGHT! He's trying to set up meetings with other married women...through emails galore. Hubby then is put up on the plank, again is still playing stupid, but eventually confesses because he realizes that he has been caught. He says he hasn't actually met these women, but the wife is now untrusting. Yet, strange enough, she believes he has not actually done anything physical with these other women. Is this cyberspace rendezvous still considered adultery, since he was clearly looking for a little somethin'-somethin' or is it just a man using the wrong head in his decision making?