Mother & Daughter Relationships

United States
September 3, 2008 1:48pm CST
Today my mother and I got into a fight. We always have our little fight, but we always come back together. I love my mom dearly. Today we were fighting about her not taking me to the doctor. She called me every name in the book and it really hurted. I thought that that would be the last thing my mother would do to me, considering that I'm her child. She even told me to my face thatshe hated me. I told her to calm down but she ket telling me that she hated me an thats the wosrt thing you could ever do to a person. Then she asked me to leave. Reall I don't know where I'm going to go or what I'm going to do. I'm just sick and tired of the back and forth arguing. I don't care if i have to live on the street. If it makes her happy, then I'll leave. What do you guys think I should do?
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bamakelly
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
3 Sep 08
While you should have respect for your mother she still should be the mature adult and not call you any names. That is just not a mother should do to her child. I am a forty year old woman with a son. I wouldn't call him any bad names. I understand your mother might be angry. Just try to be patient and wait things out. Don't do anything hasty right now. You have a roof over your head and you will have to deal with the house rules for now. It might not be a good idea to run away. Take my experience and advice please. You will grow to understand all of this much better as you grown older. I wish you well.
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Sep 08
kanesha do you have an aunt or cousin or someone you really likeandtrust that you could go to for a day or two until your mom cools off, wheres your dad? you need someone on your side.Your mom sounds likes she might need some mental health counseling as no mom should tellher daughter she hates her, I think perhaps your mom is emotionally ill.maybe you both should see a counselor to get some counseling on how to live with each 'other.