Parent's Respect What is Your Opinion???
By Tushavi
@Tushavi (2077)
Karachi, Pakistan
September 3, 2008 4:55pm CST
Hello,
I Just Start Discussion About this You Respect Your Parent's Please Answer Yes or No You Obey If He/She Told you anythings???about me i respect may be sometime not & after that i results of disobeying what is your opinion Respect Parent's Or Not & please told me if guys are new adult's Like me I am 18 on 14th augusts 2008 I disagree my father's suggestion many time father's anger & told me you are not right soon u see it's result & i got results but why we Disagree with father's can any one have answer Why New Adult's Fought Specially Father's???
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12 responses
@ram_cv (16513)
• India
4 Sep 08
I think you are talking about two things here. One is about respecting your parents, while the other aspect is about agreeing to their views. I respect my parents 100% of the time. But probably agree with their views only around 50% of the time. When I disagree with them, it does not mean that I disrespect them, it is just that I have views which are different from theirs. I feel it is perfectly ok. In fact, from times immemorial positive differences are welcomed. It is only if the differences lead to fights then problems creep in.
Cheers!
Ram
@kinonai (10)
• United States
3 Sep 08
There is a point in a person's life where they must demand the respect they deserve. Yes, I do respect my mother, although this does not mean that I will allow her to walk over me either. As a 20 year old, it seems only fair for me to be allowed to live my life, and yet my mom still monopolizes every aspect of my existence and refuses to let go. Little does she know, I have plans to move out next semester. Unfortunately for her, I am a free citizen with rights... even if she's unaware of this.
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
4 Sep 08
I guess it's just in the genes, everybody's genes. But there is a difference between not obeying and not respecting. I expect my children to fight me every step of the way, and I expect them to disobey me. I would actually be more concerned if they obeyed me always. But they have to respect me, not necessarily as their father, but as another human being.
@durgas1981 (43)
• India
4 Sep 08
I am give the respect of my parents.they are give the good life for children and take care.they always thinking of our future and give good suggetions.they excuse our falts.i am support the parents and take their opinions.so all childrens are give respect of the parents.
@aimseeker (112)
• Pakistan
4 Sep 08
now what kind of question is that...of course u have to respect ur parents....
so do i....in respect there is no compromise but if u say about obeying....i always try to maintain a peak level in that too....everyone should respect his/her parents at any cost.....there's no point of dis-respecting them at any cost...
@WANGLIKOU (114)
• China
4 Sep 08
I respect my parents of course .but it does not mean I should obey my parents the all time.It is known to all that different people might have various views about the same thing.so in my opinion ,we should respect our parents as well as lisoning to our own sound of heart sometime.
@ravinder18 (868)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 08
I respect my parents so do my parents. We will discuss together and will do decisions that will benefits all include me and my parents.
@renol1167 (43)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Sep 08
We must respect our parents because they just really care for us.But respecting is not always to follow what they want us to be ot to do since we are already know what is right and wrong.I think communication is the tool to be more open and undestanding each other.
@seeths (413)
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4 Sep 08
Parents really care for us and they are the people who are really with us all the time.In my case I really care for them and above all I do respect them a lot.Sometimes my opinion really differs from them.That would be because of the generation gap that we have towards them.They still follow the ancestors point of view which I am not telling that is wrong but sometimes we have to make it really care that today's generation people dont go by.
Regards
@freakingman (239)
• Singapore
4 Sep 08
when i was young, i let my parent makes any decision for me. i was always afraid of failure. i would surely obey them whenever they tell me to do this or that. but as i grow older, i tend to make my own decision, sometimes, it could be totally different from what they had planned. i knew i broke their hearts sometimes. but they left me to myself as they believed i can understand each failure eventually. i still respect them but sometimes my interest could be different from them.
@leezum (2)
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4 Sep 08
well my father is more understanding than my mom...they are our parents and have seen more of the world than us,..they have experienced more than wat we have,...and they love and care for us there fore they are strict with us...but at the same time...times have changed since theirs...the world has changed a lot for the better and in some cases for the worse...
so in some cases my parents do take my opinions seriously and follow them,..but in some cases they dont agree at all with me...
