do you want to have a child??.how many do you want?

Philippines
September 3, 2008 9:14pm CST
for me if im going to choose!..i dont want to have a child!...if my wife want to have a child!..i want ONE only..child are very naughty!...what do i do?..
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• United States
4 Sep 08
i dont want any kids.. i am not good with kids and have health probs to where i cant and i really wont miss the fact im not having any
• United States
5 Sep 08
im horrible with kids because i was raised alone with no other kids until i was like 10 and then i was still homeschooled so i have no clue what kids even do.. i was treated like an adult from birth
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
why you dont want ot have a kids?..oh i see!..but you can play with kids,,
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• Philippines
5 Sep 08
do you mean that you dont have any brother no sister?..your the only child?..i think your social life is very low!..
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4 Sep 08
why dont you want to have a child??? for me.. i want a verry big happy family... i want a dozen children or more.. to live happily ever after
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 08
Why did you say that having a big family is ridiculous? I mean, people have their own idea of family, and I think your choice to have no kids at all as well as coffee's idea to have many kids are just the same. None of it ridiculous because that's someone's beliefs of living a life.
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
ridiculous sorry for that word!..it ridiculous because here i our country!....still developing country!..most of the family here!..want small family!...but year by year!..they make babies!..even though they are poor!...im not offending the poor!..cause im poor too!..but were not a big family!...
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• Philippines
4 Sep 08
w0w big big family...so ridiculous..
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 08
LOL! I want to have children. I asked 4 but my GF refused. She only wants 2 at the most. I can understand why. It's hard to keep them, especially there should be a financial planning done before we really have a kid...
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
w0w,.,why your gf refuse it..you know what..cause youre not married!..LOL.. hahaha...marry here before you make babies!...
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 08
Well, that's the answer! Of course you right, and you so dam* right! I would marry her first then we will got a child... thank you for letting me know my mistakes LOL!
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
but there is another mistake!..your a lesbian right!,,,how can you produce sperm cells?...thats too odd!...but there is another options!..you can adopt a child!1..but he/she is not your blooD!..i didnt insult you im just telling the truth!..thnx
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@lanlan011 (701)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I want to have around 4. two of them i want to adopt. children are so adorable. not all kids are naughty..its just how you teach them. i see nothing wrong with having kids. they are the greatest gift in life.
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
yeah,.,you can teach them how to be a good!..but all kids are naughty!..because the nature of sin!...
@showpup (232)
• United States
4 Sep 08
I have three children. None were planned and none regretted. They certainly had their share of 'naughty times' but haven't we all? Maybe that's why there is a fear associated with that responsibility. Remembering our own naughtiness. ;) My children are now 17, 19 and 21 and some of the best memories that make me grin and giggle are when they were naughty. It's not always a terrible thing. As far as what you should do... follow your heart and be open minded when talking and LISTENING to your wife. I don't think any of us are really ready for children in the truest sense of the word. We maybe just 'think' we are. But then the blessings and good times start flooding in and you just have to sigh and say Thank God for this treasure in my life... can I have another, please? lol
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
Yeah..sometimes their naughtiness makes us happy!...
@Erin88 (348)
• United States
4 Sep 08
I have one child and would like another someday. I wasn't sure if I would ever have any, but now that he is here, I can't imagine (and don't want to imagine) what life was like before he was here. Children are not easy, especially if you aren't ready, but I don't regret having him. I enjoy the time I spend with my son, and miss him when we are apart.
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
yeah11..your totally right!...before you want to have a baby! plan first thats the only way to be ready to have some fun with your child!..thnx..