My Ex is still hitting on me..!!! HELP

You have to close every contact with him, how much I understand he is a type that if you don't do like I said he'll never stop to haeng around you, with some people is not possible after a relationship to remain friend and he is one of them.. Take care Nun

Hi stella, I have missed you and sorry to hear about the problem with your ex.. All I can say is next time he says to "chill" just tell him that you don't appreicate that kind of talk from him, that it makes you uncomfortable.. Also do you have to be near him? Like you work with him or go to school with him? If not, then I would also suggest you no longer hang out where he is, that isn't being mean, but it is keeping your distance, I mean you did break up,both of you need to move on.. I hope that helps, have a good day..

i would suggest you to ignore him. just ride to his jokes and games. but be sure about your feelings. but if it really affects you, tell him it's not really funny and you don't like him playing games with you again...

I don't think anything works better than simple plain talk. get an opportunity to talk to him. Tell him straight what your feelings are and how you feel when he acts the way he acts. being honest is not being rude. Being honest about your feelings towards a person is the best you can do. And letting the other person know exactly how he makes you feel really helps that person come to terms with the reality. There is a very high possibility that your being silent is encouraging him in whatever he is doing. From what you have mentioned I have a feeling he doesn't really care about how you feel. So talk to him and then see if that changes the way he interacts with you and if it doesn't then you do not have to worry about being rude to him. Any man who cannot respect a lady's priorities is not worth the respect you are offering him. If I were you I would give him one chance after the talk and if he doesn't change the way he behaves with me He will get long Good Bye from me. perhaps longer than his lifetime.