did you ever thought that your wasted your life loving some worthless person
By vinesh_kcm
@vinesh_kcm (453)
India
September 4, 2008 2:29pm CST
hi everyone.. i heard most of them saying that love at early stages of our life will spoil our future.. and i also heard some of the people who got affected by the breakup saying that they wasted their life loving a worthless person.. i had such experience and thought like that when i was betrayed by the person whom i love the most..share your thoughts..
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6 responses
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
4 Sep 08
Never say that its not worth. I can just understand you. In love we will face so many problems man. The same we will face when married also. But we will be mature enough to face the problems after marriage. When in love, we are not that mature. The mani thing in love is just adjusting. Either one of you must be adjusting. In my love some days I was too harsh to him and he adjusted that and so we crossed that hindrance. Some days he was too harsh to me that made me cry every single day. But I adjusted that time. Finally its no more now. But I will never say that its not worth or that I loved a person who didn't value my love and all.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
Hi vinesh, First of all I don't think that anyone is a worthless person, people are just different. Sometimes we get hurt and it is hard to say anything good about the other person, but later in life we will see that we learned from the experience. Just because we don't get along with a certain person doesn't mean that we can't find happiness with another. This is also true for the other as well. Blessings.
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@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
4 Sep 08
sorry buddy, i said that wrongly.. i just tried to mean if the person does not understand the worth of your true love
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
well,ive experienced that before.Loving someone who can't appreciate the LOVE you've given to that someone is not worth it..But then i tried to stop my feelings for him and let him realize that i do loved him wholeheartedly,so then when i finally moved on,he's now wanting me back..ugh..THINGS were really confusing now..:)
@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
5 Sep 08
yes buddy.. this thing happens in most of the cases but be clear in you decision.. whatever it may be.. take care
@vijbas (369)
• India
5 Sep 08
i'll be able to give a good response to u bcoz i haven't loves anyone. many of my frens have lovers and i dont think they have wasted their life. some of started to study well and behave well after they started loving a girl. every coin has two sides. it happens to someday when they feel depressed when their lover betrays him/her.
So be consious in selecting ur partner.
@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
5 Sep 08
yes buddy that really matters.. how do we react or respond
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@ibiswas (422)
• India
5 Sep 08
Nope never. I never felt i wasted my life loving someone but contradictly feel i made my life and time worthful loving somebody who is so nice and dear. I had a roller coaster of feelings and incidents between us but never felt that we are wasting time with each other. Every day is a new day with new meaning and i behold all those memories and feelings till today deep in my heart.
Every person is worthy, every day is worthy, every feeling is worthy
The only thing you have to do to realise is to change your thoughts to make that thought a worthy thought. Wish you all the best............
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