what will you do when someone is angry with you?

Philippines
September 4, 2008 8:46pm CST
I don't like to have enemies, but what if you're doing everything to be good, but the person just don't like you, what will you do if he/she is doing something wrong with you, he/she hates you, cause pain on you and tell something bad about yoy? the bible says in Matthew 5:44 that we should love our enemies. Because what credit can we get in loving those who loves us? Yes, it is so hard to love those who wronged you, but as we think of Jesus's love towards us then we began to realize that He too has loved us unconditionally, that He even gave His life for us to be saveed! How awesome God's love is. So, are you willing to love your enemies?
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4 responses
@peach25 (188)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Hello there! We cannot please everyone, there are persons who don't like us whatever we do! If you think you hurt him/her say sorry.. There is nothing to loose, but if you did nothing and yet they still hate you, well face it, its their problem anyway, but never do something that can prove them right about you... Don't consider them enemy,just whatever they do, try to forgive them.
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
okay, thank you for that suggestion. God bless you
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 08
I don't like having enemy too. If someone is angry and hates me for some reasons, I should know the reason. If the reason is make sense, I would like to accept it as a reason and I would like to apologize if there is something I've done wrong. But if they're angry to me without a specific reason, or a silly reason, I would never talk to them anymore. ever.
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
so how will you solve the problem if you don't want to talk about it?
• United States
5 Sep 08
You can't make a person like you. You can try the best you can to get them to like you. But if they dislike you you just have to try to not let it bother you. Just ignore them and turn the other cheek. It is hard to do this but I don't believe in turning hate for hate. It accomplishes nothing. It is not a easy thing but who knows by treating someone who hates you good you may turn around and they even start to like you.
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
yes, you're right. Thanks for the advice. God bless you
• Malaysia
5 Sep 08
As a Christian, I learned that Love is the most important thing. So whatever other people do that make us unhappy. We just have to forgive and forget. That way we'll always have peace in our heart.