how if u luv sum1 but he dont luv u back bcoz d one he loves is ur best friend?
By movenpick
@movenpick (10)
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September 5, 2008 12:50pm CST
im just asking what are you going to do..? if that will happen to you,, bcozz i have a friend.. she's asking me for an advice for that situation..bcoz it happened to her.. i just want to help her... bcoz her lor loveones didn't love her only her bestfriend..how sad..?
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@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
There's really not much to do here since we cannot control a person's mind neither influence other peoples feelings towards love. We can only be a good listener to a friend who needs to be understood. It is rather a difficult situation to be in since the guy he is in love with is the same guy who is in love with her bestfriend. It's just a matter of accepting the fact that she can never have the guy she really wanted unless the attention would be diverted to her. The question now is: Does her bestfriend knew that she is in love with this guy? If the answer is yes, her bestfriend should understand how she, your friend, would feel and would probably not entertain this guy since it would hurt her bestfriend's feelings. Unless, her bestfriend is in love with this guy too, then that could really be a problem.
@movenpick (10)
• Qatar
5 Sep 08
yeszz,,, her bestfriend know it,,or corsszz... but her bestfriends isz not inlove with the guy...
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@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Then it wouldn't be much of a problem for her. She can even ask her bestfriend to turn the guy's attention to her, discreetly of course. At least she's fortunate enough that her bestfriend is not interested with this guy. You could probably tell her to befriend the guy and maybe by then she could win his heart. You're being a good friend/listener to her, is more than enough rather than giving her a good advice. I hope I was able to help you in some way.