Top Ways to work on Trust
By sumpter
@sumpter (214)
United States
September 5, 2008 3:53pm CST
Right now I need to work on trust with my SO...this seems to be the hardest thing to ever do. For those who been there, what are some of the things to do to really start trusting again. Any pointers?
3 responses
@joy4you (641)
• India
7 Sep 08
It is very difficult to gain back someones trust once you have broken it and a lot depends on how that trust was broken, the reasons behind it and how forgiving the cheatde person is willing to be, but it's never the same once broken.
I think the first step is to acknowledge that what you have done is wrong and ask to be forgiven, then never repeat the same mistake again.
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
6 Sep 08
i use to be the same way did not Trust my b/f and he said i need to gave him breathing room so i try my best to not be so jump on him well you got to put a tiny bite of trust in your mate i mean not trust him or her full but a what i real do think when your mate gets a job i think they fall out of love with you that is what i think that might not be true but any ways i whish you goog luck
@Phelyne (129)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I kind of think trust is something you sort of have to work on like patience and forgiveness. Every time you find yourself doing or thinking something that shows distrust of the other person, stop and remind yourself that you trust them, especially if they haven't done anything that should cause you not to trust them. If they have, then you have the forgiveness and trust issue to work on at the same time, which is harder.