Would you homeschool?
@chameleonsdream (1230)
United States
September 5, 2008 5:53pm CST
My high school age son is asking about the possibility of being home-schooled, and the school is pretty receptive to the idea. Have you (Or do you) home school your kids? Would you? Why or why not?
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@Erin88 (348)
• United States
6 Sep 08
I am seriously thinking about homeschooling my son. Right now he is 3 and isn't old enough for regular school, but I would like to homeschool him when he is old enough to start kindergarten. I think my son would benefit from the one-on-one attention that he won't get in a classroom. He can get socialization from a variety of clubs and extracurricular activities, as well as at Sunday school at our church.
One of the benefits of homeschooling during high school is that some colleges will allow the students to take college classes that will satisfy the high school requirements while allowing them to get college credit at the same time.
One drawback is that a student has to be very focused so he/she doesn't fall behind. If your son is motivated, I think it would be a great option. Good luck to your son in whatever route he chooses to take.
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@chameleonsdream (1230)
• United States
6 Sep 08
Thanks, Erin. He is involved in a number of activities and groups outside school, and our local community college does offer classes for dual-enrollment in high school and college. There's also the possibility of adult education classes and GED preparation classes. One other plus is that our school district policy will award a high school diploma to a child who earns their GED within a year of their class' graduation.
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@kreations (37)
• United States
6 Sep 08
I won't, but that is because I only one child. I think at high school age, if he is motivated and has other things in his agenda it could make alot of sense. online charters are very popular right now. The public schools don't have the money to give kids the education they need and private school is impossible to get into at the age. It might amke sense for you.
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@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
6 Sep 08
I don't think I'd have the stamina for it. I have three though. I guess just teaching one might be okay. Then again, when it comes to teaching concepts I have very little patience if people don't get it. I think the only reason I would decide to teach would be if the school would not do the right job of teaching my child. Which could indeed happen. My oldest is ahead of her class and I fear that if she gets bored she might start to goof off. She is only seven. Right now they are still allowed to color when they are done with a test or some other work and the rest of the class isn't done yet. But in a couple of years, who knows.. There used to be a gifted program to challenge those kids, but they cut it down to one teacher for seven elementary level schools. There is not much coming from there. So, if it would be academically, I would homeschool.
Now for other problems, no. Unless they have to stay at home for health reasons, they better learn to deal with the situation. It will not get easier in the 'real' world. Better they deal with issues now while I can still provide some guidance. I would think the same way at the high school level.
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@chameleonsdream (1230)
• United States
6 Sep 08
Thanks for your input on this, jonesy. Learning to deal with it is one thing - but I would also tell my older children in jobs that were affecting their health to find another option. Attending school in an environment where he has been targeted for bullying and hazing of one sort or another for two years -is- affecting his health and his future. Right now, our options are unclear - I'll be meeting with the school to discuss them on Monday - but based on a brief conversation, they include the remote possibility of another school in the district, the use of a school choice voucher for him to attend a school out of district, and the possibility of home schooling.
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@mrsgoodygoody00 (895)
• United States
6 Sep 08
Well, we are expecting our 1st baby, and we definitely wil not be homeschooling. We plan on sending our daughter to school. We wouldn't have the time for something like that. I'd also really like her to have all of the experiences of attending shool, and getting to know all kinds of other children. I'd rather send her to school where they have qualified teachers who have chosen teaching as a career and true passion.
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@chameleonsdream (1230)
• United States
6 Sep 08
I wish you luck on finding a school like that - and I am very serious. At one point in my kids' school career, they were blessed to attend a magnet school that was staffed by teachers who had that complete commitment and passion, and it was magnificent. Unfortunately, it was a victim of 'school reform' in our state because it didn't teach by traditional methods.
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@rina312 (296)
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6 Sep 08
Hi chameleonsdream, I'm not married yet so I don't have any kids. But if i were, I wouldn't considering to homeschool them. Unless if they really have to be, for example say, transportation problem. Because the kids need to understand the concept of learning at the school and to be able to socialise with other kids since they are young. So that they learn from an early start and learn as they get old.
@eden32 (3973)
• United States
6 Sep 08
It's a common misconception about home schoolers that the children are sheltered from other kids. My kids are involved with dozens of activities & several home schooling groups. They spend far more time with other kids (and can truly interact with them)than children in public school.
@chameleonsdream (1230)
• United States
6 Sep 08
I used to run a community access computer center that was often used as a resource by home-schooling parents in our community, so I know that there is a strong home-schooling presence in my city. Most of those who used our center were parents of much younger children than my son, but I was impressed with the depth and breadth of the kids' knowledge, as well as their curiosity and commitment to learning.
I also have to say that the biggest reason we're considering this now - when he's two years away from finishing high school and one away from being able to legally leave school with no repercussions - is social. "Learning to socialize with other kids" has taught him that other kids are mean and rude and intolerant of differences. The school is helping me come up with alternatives, and home-schooling is one that is looking far more attractive all the time.
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@stellarjade (1238)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I don't have kids yet, but this is something I have thought about. I am considering homeschooling them at least when they are younger. I would think they could learn a lot more with the one on one, and maybe even learn things that they don't get in school. But as they got older, I would put them in a school. They would need the interaction with other children, and shouldn't miss out on all the fun things at school.