why do we sometimed feel that we don't love the one we're with?

Yeah, sometimes you get overdosed on someone lol. I have definately been there. Sometimes it might be that you've got something on your mind but you havent really admitted it to yourself. When things are bubbling under the surface you can find yourself being grumpy and not wanting anyone in your face. Other times, maybe it is just that the initial magic has worn off, as it usually does, but what's left isnt enough for you. That's the test I guess. There's also the fact that sometimes we pin all of our happiness on one person. When we're feeling like we want hugs and attention, we run to that person, we build them up into being everything to us. Then, when we're in a different place, maybe wanting to focus on work or some other thing, we don't need the person there so much, because we're feeling that space in our lives up with other things that make us happy/keep us occupied. Next thing you know, you'll feel insecure or down and you'll be running back to that person for comfort and reassurance. People are fickle things and what we often take for love and attraction is sometimes something else entirely......

It's basically infacutation, you think you are in love but are actually not.....