when your kids are bad do you ever notice they become only one of yours or his

United States
September 6, 2008 8:35am CST
its funny and my kids brought it up. when they do something dumb hubby always says well she is yours. when they are being bad i tell hubby do soemthing about your kid. when they do good though its always our kids are great. lol. who gets the blame around your house of having the kids when they are doing stuff wrong, stupid, or good? we know they are ours but the way we put things soemtimes it is just funny. like yesterday my oldest asked a really dumb question to us both. one that she knows the answer. hubby looked at me and goes you going to answer yoru daughter? then later that day the youngest got busted going into the back of the property where the grass is really high and getting an old tire out of the burn pile to make a running course out of knowing they arent allowed back there cause of snakes. well i looked at him and said you going to get on to your kid lol. then they both helped a neighbor move some stuff without being told and she said your kids are sweet and we said thank you. later we were talking abotu it and said we do have good kids better then alot of kids now days we shoudl let them stay up and watch a movie. its just funny how they switch back and forth on who wants to take the blame for what lol.
6 responses
@tismesara (113)
• United States
8 Sep 08
hahaha! we do that too! even when they do something so silly... hunny... do you know what your daughter did today.... LOL!!
@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Well I gotta say that I am sure that all parents have done this. At least we have. It doesnt matter what our one son does it's always us taking turns saying well are you gonna take care of your son to are you gonna punish your child or to your not to punish my child, but at the long run we always laugh and ask why do we do it this way. I like to think it is part of parenting... Boy it can be intresting..lol
@gemini_rose (16264)
6 Sep 08
Yes I have noticed this, I dont actually do it, but my Hubby does. It is always your daughter or your son. I always say "whoa hang on a minute, I think I had some help with them so how comes all of a sudden they are just mine" lol.
@Anne18 (11029)
6 Sep 08
Yeah, when the children are bad I always say to hubby... your children. When they are good they are mine!! Its nice to know we all do that.
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
kids are really playful. they still dont know what are they doing. anyways, what we have to do is to discipline the kid. tell them whats right and wrong. always correct what they are doing.
@jccjr5 (62)
• United States
7 Sep 08
That is exactly the same in our house. It is very funny!! I have one girl and two boys and I am forever telling my husband that he needs to take care of his boys!!! One day my daughter comes out of her room, where I had just put in a new desk, and she was very excited to show me something. I went in there and she had perfectly arranged all her crayons, pens and pencils in the drawer and gave me a couple crayons to get rid of because they wouldn't fit properly. I showed my husband when he got home and that is one of the few times he can claim her, because that definately came from him!!