I got it again!

Hi diansinta, I get very annoyed as well, I have already told them that I don't go on any other site and I'm just on one site and that is Mylot, but they keep one giving links, so I can understand why you done that. Tamara

that is irritating. i never receive anything like that so far. but i heard a lot of myloters who are angry and ranting about such things like that. i have some friends too here that does not respond to my discussion and i am still giving them the benifit of the doubt. still giving them a chance. when they will not respond from my discussions then i dont need them and i dont like to see their discussions hanging on my mail box.

Opps a stern warning! The first thing when I open mylot is to check on this friends request. I am excited if someone invite me to be their friends. I hope I great tons of new friends everyday here but I would not initiate a request myself for fear of being rejected.

Hi there diansinta! I am lucky in that even though I have a huge amount of friends they seem to keep their distance with the spamming of links. They always ask first and then I never usually decline in respect of their honesty. If it gets so that one particular user is doing this persistantly you can report the username through the 'contact' button at the bottom. Spamming is illegal. I suppose you have heard about my campaign to clear out the spammers and the scammers in the money interest? Don't want you to be shocked but when I see someone in violation of the rules they get my new signature I'll sign off with it here but first I wish you happy posting! ^ Mysdi REPORTS THE GARBAGE! KEEP MYLOT CLEAN! ^

I have been pretty lucky in that this has never happened to me yet. Now I have said that I will be flooded with them! I could never do that me, ask someone to be a friend and then send them referral links to earn me money it seems a bit of a cheek dont it? Mind you if I look at their profile and I see that they set loads of money discussions etc I do not usually accept them.

that's great! what's the point of keeping mylot friends who doesn't even care about you not even teeny tinny bit?? yea i had some friends in the past and added them as a friend on my facebook/myspace but that's just waste of time... they really don't care about me really... :( but i guess that's just how it works

I'm with you! That's ridiculous! I don't put up with it either..

I couldn't agree more with you. It's about working together on mylot and talking about stuff you agree/disagree on, not getting more referrals in other programs. Have a nice day

You can do whatever you like, you can turn off notification or immediately delete them from your list. You can do it anytime if you find your friend in your list do not help and do nothing or just taking advantage or just giving a mess. Nothing can prevent us to delete them, this is our right. Good luck. (neildc @ red/90/1800)

this has always been a preference at any social site. if someone spams you, you can delete them, or at least the message. some sites you can report them, too. you have a right to do this. if it is upsetting then you should enforce it. i have a feeling that you will, too.

I like the way you do! Go kick 'em Tiger lol and how about someone request, but they never give you any link, or any response or even show at once?? Did you kick 'em all too? Just wonder .. hehehe you're great!! Keep the good work hehe

I would like to suggest MYLOT.. to give the members one more option ......other than calling these people friend... Calling them friend is an insult to all good friends....

nga ngerti ?

Good for you! I can't stand spammers either. Someone sends me spam they immediately get deleted. I don't even bother with them. Like we don't all get enough of that in our e-mail every day.

Yeah I agree with you and I don't like it either when please spam other member's just to try and get a ref link for their program, every one would like ref's for their programs but they don't go around spamming every one to get them its just plain rude and I think we all just delete them from no on and not even reply to their messages!

That is telling them! But really, you don't have to get mad, just do it! Every now and then I decide my friend list is too big, and I look for people I can zap, lol, but in truth I am rather sentimental and do keep some folks on there who are a bit on the user side. But I know who my real friends are, no fear.

omg dian sinta, so you want to delete me from your list?! that's not fair! i think i pm links to you only 27 times each of them is only 10 - 15 links, and i never force you to join as my referrals. i just encourage you to do that. well, maybe i need a tool to make someone forget what they experienced, a selective amnesia, like in 'men in black'. meanwhile, i will just use my hypnotizing power. so, close your eyes, relax, and sleep in one, two three!...then youuu forgeet what hapenned to youoo, youuu forget that i ever sent hundreds of referral links to yoouuuu...forgeettt, forgeeett, forgeeeettt.

If that happens to me, I'll probably do the same thing. I will automatically delete any member who would just like to be added to my list just to get me as downline. I only sign up or exchange referrals to my close friends. And we never do it here on my mylot. We have our own forum for that. Keep calm dian. Ignore them next time. HUGZ!

hi i must say, i'm lucky in this sense. Although my friends' list isn't too big but who ever are there i do enjoy them. Infact, i guess, sometimes, i can't match their goodness.