How good are you from learning your mistakes and past bad experiences ?
By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
10 responses
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Sep 08
I try my best to learn from my past mistakes and lean a lesson from bad experiences. Many a times I do not fall back into the trap in the same situation, yet sometimes I commit the same mistake, which I should not. I think committing mistakes is part of the game and till we commit mistakes, we do not learn.
What about you Bala?
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 08
I fully agree with you Bala, sobbing faces with tears can take us for a ride and we become fools sometimes.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
7 Sep 08
Hello Bala, nice to see you with another interesting discussion. .
Well this discussion is not only interesting but also bitter in taste...lol as it has left some unpleasant memories and some inerasable scars deep inside us. I think I am a good learner and have never repeated the same mistake again. I am mentally not very strong to tolerate again again same kind of insult and frustration and will take every step very carefully , not to fall again into such kind of trap....what about you.........I think you are same as me.....but let' hear it from you.
@balasri (26537)
• India
7 Sep 08
Mein bhi ek dhum aap ki thara hum.Once bitten twice shy.I never face the person who gave the bitter experience and never go to a place which has taught me a lesson.Avoiding the the ones that you are not comfortable with is the only way to happiness.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
7 Sep 08
I knew Bala, you could not be different from me. We are very emotional people and try to keep distance from such people with whom we are not comfortable and also such places where we feel as if we will die due to suffocation.....we are happy in our simple world.....where we can share and smile together..... Have a nice day Bala.
@nic_knick (739)
• China
7 Sep 08
I have no idea whether I am a good learner or not, but I think I try to learn from the mistake I made. And I hope that the same mistake won't ever happen again, because that would make me look very stupid, I think clever and smart people would not commit the same mistake twice. Certainly, I am not the clever and smart one. Hope you are..
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
7 Sep 08
I think I have learnt good and proper my friend, because it cost me 9 years of my life and that is something you never want to repeat! I had a very bad experience well two which concerned my past relationships! I was always looking for my knight in shining armour to come and rescue me and then I would sail off into the sunset and then after a time I would look for my next knight to rescue me. Well I suddenly realized that the only person who could rescue me is ME! And I stopped looking for the knight. I have learnt from my bitter, regretful mistakes and I have vowed never to get into another relationship again.
@karmendra (1123)
• India
7 Sep 08
some time mistakes and bad experience teach you how to live life.. i think it is good for us.. i always try for don't do mistakes again,, in my life..
have a nice day..
@littleowl (7157)
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13 Sep 08
Hi bala..fortunatly I have turned out a better person for all the hard things that have happened to me and am glad as I now have learned what I was meant of learnt I am free and can lice my life as I should..littleowl
@p1kef1sh (45681)
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7 Sep 08
I'm pretty good at learning important lessons Bala. I trust people far too much and sometimes get hurt, but I'm also big on forgiveness. Life is too short to hold grudges. I am very good at telling other people to learn from their mistakes. I should listen to myself sometimes!! LOL.