chances
By myahw20
@myahw20 (1115)
Canada
4 responses
@callcenterchick (94)
•
7 Sep 08
well for me it happend so many times with my past ex i thought everything will change his personality and the thoughtfulness.
it really depends on you.
but you know what its just like this
are you willing to be miserable on your life with him waiting for him to change?
or
are you just going to be happy and just wait for the right person who will love and accept you for who you are?
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
7 Sep 08
I can relate to you very well. This happened with my ex too, I waited for him to change for a long time until I decided to give myself a chance to meet new people and hopefully the right one will come my way and my decision was right. I eventually met the man of my dreams, my current and hopefully forever love. I hope you become lucky in your love life too. ^_^
@tarheelnancy (1317)
• United States
7 Sep 08
I love my husband very very much but I have to say he doesn't get any chances. If he breaks my heart (and the only way he could do that is to cheat on me)then he's out of luck. I would never be able to trust him and I could never believe him when he would say I love you. If he loved me, really truly loved me, he would never have cheat. For cheating, he would never ever deserve another chance.
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Well all I can say is that I admit in giving my ex many chances I always made excuses for him in the sense of saying oh he is going to change, it was just a mistake, and blah blah blah, but after I dealt with that situation for five and a half years, had a daughter I finally came to my senses and realized that he never valued me truly because he continued to make the same mistakes over and over. The blind fold fell off and now I see things so differently and I can say that I was so blind and cared so much about him that I failed to realize who he really was and now I just plan on sticking to no more and put my foot down, he is just not ready to ever commit to just one girl and I am not a rag doll that he can play with whenever he desires it.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
if i'm not yet married by now my past boyfriend wouldn't get another chance to enter my life again..i would't want him giving another chance to hurt me again..he hurt me once and there's no assurance that he'll not hurt me once more..i'm only protecting my heart. .another thing is my trust for him has been broken... (",)
