wat do you think is the important thing for a relationship to last money or luv?

Honestly as sad as it is to say this...the majority of society today is TOO concerned with money....so yes in relationships it can be a HUGE source of troubles and such....For me personally though as much as i love having money and 'stuff', its not tht big of a deal to me..BUT I've been homeless and lived without in the past so as much as I love my stuff and having money I KNOW I can manage without ya know...plus I'm not one whos big on "keeping up with the Joneses" if that makes sense.... I think if a relationship is genuine and the love is pure, real and strong and there is solid, open communication it can withstand pretty much anything

Back in a different time money was not everything. Things were often crafted and money was spent frugally. I quit my job to be with my fiance as the hours were extremely horrid, and time spent with him was often a "hello" and me sleeping in his arms. While that was nice, it really hindered the blossoming of our relationship. So, as I said, I quit my job. He did not and still does not have a job, and yet we are broke but in love. We are working hard for the money we reap and we sow it carefully. I'm not really sure if I made proper use of the reap and sow saying, but as it is, there it is. Great discussion! Welcome to mylot, and may I suggest a long winded discussion is the best for earnings and understandings?

I think a money is a big source of problems in relationships, the less money you have, the easier it is to have something to fight about. It is a huge factor in a lot of divorce cases. Love is, of course, more important than money, it's just a shame more people can't see that.

Love, of course. Anyway nowadays people care a lot for the money and i don't think that the 100% in the world would chose love.