is love enough to change a person?

Philippines
September 7, 2008 11:56am CST
do you believe in this? that when a person is in love it changes his/her outlook in life, attitude, plans and his/her ways. what is you take on this?
7 responses
@ibiswas (422)
• India
7 Sep 08
yes i strongly believe that love can change a person's perception, attitude, vision and outlook to his/her own life. If we love someone dearly it would make that person feel that they are in seventh heaven and will make them feel wanted and important, as a result that feeling will drive them to do things in a very cheerful and happy mood.... "Love yourself, love others and spread love wherever you go............". Happy myLotting............ :-)
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• Philippines
8 Sep 08
i like the way you ended your responses. thanks for your post and have a great day!!!
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Well, I think that it can definately change someone, but they will always be themselves, nobody can be completely changed, but they can definately be moved in many ways. Though, if a person is not very trusting they may never become trusting and the other person is going to have to adjust to help them out and make them feel secure, because there are not a lot of ways that you can change that.
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
i would agree with what you said. thanks for the post and have a great weekend. happy mylotting!!!
• United States
7 Sep 08
It all depends on the person. Some people do a complete 360 & change for the rest of their lives but some people just change cause they think that's what the other person wants them to be like. I think that the only thing that can really change a person is their want to change. No one else can make someone change.
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
i agree that the person can only be the one that can change oneself and not others doing it. it has something to do with ones will. thanks for the post!!! and happy mylotting!!!
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
7 Sep 08
It is a YES, NO and MAYBE. Changes depends with the person. Depends with the surroundings or environment she/he is. Others trying to change their partner in a way that they wanted to be and others want to change coz they thought if they will their partner/s will love them more and proud. But you don't have to do that. All you need is to be real to yourself, to your parner and to everyone. That is the most important. If ever changes will occur, make sure that it coz of willingness and not being pressured by someone. Change to be better and not worst
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
Yes,I believe that when a person fall in love they changed a lot like with their views in life, their appearance/looks, attitudes/behaviors, and plans.. In all of the things that they think or do, they always think not only for their selves but also together to the one they love.. They always find ways and makes possible thing to happen even it is impossible to do.. They changed not because they need too or they were ask to change but they change because they want too.. Love is the most powerful because it makes people change just for the sake to see their love one happy and to make their self proud..
@joy4you (641)
• India
8 Sep 08
I would also like to see some of your views on the negative side of this discussion. What if you are in a relationship where love is one sided, say you love your partner but he/she does not love you back, will that change a person in a negative way, maybe make the person hateful, angry, vengeful, depressed etc?
7 Sep 08
I don't believe that love can change a person.You cannot hold him by hand.