We won't get both of the kids but we got the baby...

United States
September 7, 2008 6:31pm CST
I'm just really feeling disgusted right now with my sister-in-law. She is letting her 7 year old son go to live with her abusive soon-to-be ex-husband. We had that boy & his sister who is 1 year old but she wanted them for a couple of days so they could spend time with her SOB husband and now all of a sudden the little boy is on a plane with him. She also is giving up her baby girl so that she "can live her life". We have 4 kids & stuggle to give them all that they need. We are the ones that are responsible in both of our families when things get tough. She doesn't have a care in the world. She gave up her oldest child to my mother-in-law and we've helped to raise him too. Now, we have a 1 year old baby to raise. I refuse to give up on these children even if it means sacrificing the world for them. I can't imagine giving up my children just cause I want to go out partying or whatever. I could understand if she gave up the kids cause she didn't have the means to raise them & all of that but she has a great job & everything else even without her SOB husband taking her down. She is just thinking about herself and will regret it. I just need some prayer, guidance, etc. right now. I know we are making the right choice. Please send us good vibes & the strength to take all of this on.
2 responses
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I don't understand how someone can do that. I am sorry that you have to take on more responsability. I am more sorry for the child that has been sent to a bad situation to live. You are in our prayers and good luck to you.
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Believe me, you are doing the right thing. These children need a chance for a happy life, they did not ask to come into this world, and since the person who brought them into the world is only thinking of herself, they are truly blessed to have you in their life. I pray that the little boy will be ok with his father. I could never understand why women have children, when they know they really do not want to step up the responsibilities that it requires. You are truly a wonderful woman, good luck and may God bless you