My dead best friend is haunting me and I need advice... please, I'm serious...

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Ok, please bare with me here, a bit long... I had a best bud I knew since I was a baby, he died two months ago at 21 yrs of age, but I didnt find out until a few days ago (!) cuz we hadn't spoke in ages, some crap happened when we were younger, stupid crap that was my fault, we made up since then but it wasn't really the same, he was always too busy to call me. I was about to reconnect with him myself but then I found out he died. His head got caught in a conveyor belt and he died from cardiac arrest on the way to the hospital. He's been haunting my family and I for the past couple days. Nothing bad, he's not violent, just stuff to get your attention. Here's a list of what's happened so far: 1. I was in the living room, my girl was in the bedroom napping before work. She kept laughing and saying "Papi, stop pulling my sheet", I came in the room and told her I wasn't. She didn't believe me at first. 2. About 5 minutes later, my girl woke up and turned around and saw my best friend sitting in my computer chair at the foot of the bed! He had a sad/upset look on his face and was looking right at my girl, as if he was waiting for her to help him or get her to get my attention. She screamed my name, I screamed "What is it!?", then he slowly started to disappear before I came in, she said he got scared when I shouted back. 3. That same day, my girl was in a completely different part of the house talking to her sister on phone and I was in the shower. I usually leave the bathroom door open so the heat/steam doesn't build up, my girl leaves it open for me too cuz she knows this. All of a sudden the door closed gently, not slammed, but just closed, I yelled out my girl's name and asked her why she closed it. She couldn't hear me though. I guess my friend was trying to give me privacy? 4. Yesterday, we had a family get together at our house. He kept touching a couple of the guests, some who didn't even know about his death, they kept asking is someone else here? He also moved a pastry container aside in the kitchen, right before my girlfriend's eyes. Then, in the bedroom, I was alone, the door was shut, and we have one of those shoe pockets that you hang up on the wall or door, well one of the slippers was thrown out from the pocket and on to the floor, not RIGHT below it, but AWAY from it (impossible if the slipper just fell out on its own). 5. Later, my girlfriend closed our daughter's door (she wasn't home at the time), then it creaked open very slowly. She started calling his name and asking if he's here and to give her a sign, he gave no response. So she was like "whatever" and closed the door again. About 5 min later the door opened on its own once again. 6. Last but not least... this is the most puzzling of them all and the most frightening event that happened to me: Last night and this morning... I closed my eyes to go to sleep, I kept thinking about him, but then I started thinking about something else and went to sleep. Every time I thought of something else, I would hear a slight noise -- I heard two of them, first it sounded like someone picking up a paper, the 2nd sounded like a paper clip dropping on the dresser, it felt as if somebody was creeping around the bedroom, and the door was locked, nobody else was in there except me and my girlfriend. Here's the scary part: Between 7am-9am, while still asleep, I had two dreams... more like "out-of-body experiences".... The dreams took place in the exact bedroom in the exact present time. In each dream errr experience, I saw his shadow on the wall walking back and forth behind me, right beside my side of the bed. In the first experience, his shadow was walking by real fast on the wall. In the second, it was walking back and forth very slowly, his head in my direction. I could recognize EVERY detail of his figure/shadow. In each experience, I FROZE when I saw his shadow, but I couldn't turn around to look at him for some reason. It was hard to move, hard to scream, eventually I let out a few grunts and slight "no's" over and over again, that's when my girlfriend woke me up and I told her what happened. She told me to be careful otherwise he could take me with him and I won't wake up. We feel that he doesn't know this though, that's he dead, he doesn't know what he's doing. I'm guessing everyone he knows wont acknowledge him or the existence of spirits, but WE do so that's why he's over here. He didn't want to die, it was an accident, he obviously wants to talk to me and is trying to get my attention to tell me something -- Maybe he wants my help to help him understand whats going on, maybe he wants closure, to say he's sorry... I don't know. We're having a very trusted medium from our family come over next week to see if we can get any message out of him. In the meantime though, what do you all make of this? Especially my experience with his shadow... Jesus Christ, it was scary, I couldn't move! Not that my friend is scary or violent, just the fact that I'm seeing the shadow of somebody who's dead period.