Do they talk about you

@know21 (1250)
United States
September 7, 2008 8:45pm CST
Does your ex spouse de grade you to the person there going out with now; do they try to make you look bad,and them look good?
4 responses
@aize003 (225)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
my ex fiancee say awful things about me to his wife.. and they would send me message saying i'm a bad person..and it's a good thing that he did not marry me and he's very lucky that he met his wife..
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@know21 (1250)
• United States
9 Sep 08
What I don't understand if two people can't get along for some reason, why is there always one of them that just can't let it end.
@chechuva (1275)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
my ex boyfriend said bad things about me to his present girlfriend. i was so confused why my ex's girlfriend is so angry and she is avoiding me. a friend told me that my ex told her something that made her so mad at me. i was so angry with my ex. i tried to talk to the girl but she won't listen. ofcourse she won't trust me. my ex also said bad things about me to his friends.... i was really crying when i talked to my ex. i can't really blame him for doing it. but i just want him to know that it is not fair.
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@know21 (1250)
• United States
9 Sep 08
My ex girl friend talks bad about me to her boy friend. It drives him crazy; because he don't care what I was like when me and her were together.
@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
8 Sep 08
My case would be my ex girlfriend. Well, she lauds me and I guess this irritates her spouse. Sometimes, she will call and tell me that she misses me. I just don't pay attention. I have refused to give her my mobile phone number, so she traced my workplace and uses the office line instead.
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• Philippines
8 Sep 08
my first ex-bf degraded me to his mother and his friends especially when he was cheating on me. it was really a hurtful experience being badmouthed by my ex because i did not do anything wrong to him so far. he even defended himself and told my father (God rest his soul) that it was my fault by following him to his place (actually he told me to be with him so that he won't dump me- but he dumped me anyway). of course, i felt like i was alone and everyone in the family hated me since the issue he created had gone worse, but a few months later my father trusted me again when he heard that we broke up. I personally don't like guys who also pretends and tell lies. That would even make them sound immature and arrogant. I don't trust people like that.