Will you choose to be hurt now or later?

Hi there eve. If "you know that the relationship will do nothing else to you except to get hurt," then better leave now, get the "last" hurt, then heal. The rest of the moments will no longer be truly enjoyable if you choose to stay for a while. There is no point of holding on, and to "leave later then get hurt" would be a very unwise thing to do. You see, if you leave now, you will get hurt, yes, but you will save yourself from further pains. If you leave later, you might "enjoy" the moments you have with this person, but these moments would surely be agonizingly painful, and not fun. Better get hurt now, then heal, then you can have a hundred chances of even more beautiful moments with someone else - someone better, truthful, and will truly love you. Time is precious, and someone precious deserve your time and not someone who hurt you.

That was a good question, if i was in that situation i would rather be hurt now than later, knowing that this person doesn't love you obviously your relationship will not work. if you just let it go the possibility that you'll be hook to him/her is has a very big chance and you'll be hurt more. You should learn to love yourself if you want other love you or respect you, how could you gain love and respect if to you, yourself dont have it? Love is a very powerful feeling, it can destroy you or lift you up. Every person is in-charge in own life, so if i am in that situation i would rather ended it now than later.

Well it really depends on on how you will take it... its just two choices that you have to take 1st because you are blindly in love with that person you are willing to sacrifice everything and just continue the relationship even he do sent love you...... or 2nd willing to let go and start a new life because you have your pride and dignity to yourself..

Sometimes you have to make a sacrifice, instead of being hurt everyday I prefer to end it all at once and be very hurt. Atleast both of us can then move on and look for happiness elsewhere. There is no point in stretchinh a relationship you know you can't be happy in even after you have tried everything to make it work.

hi, well for me I'd rather stay with it for as long as am still enjoying the other persons company, but if time comes am more feeling hurt rather than happy or lets say I found out that he is already having a affair with someone else. I'll be the one to call it quit. No ifs no buts!