Will you listen first???
By hgwyneth
@hgwyneth (120)
Philippines
September 8, 2008 3:51am CST
Wives are nagger and sometimes husbands nag too...do you agree??? We'll, yeah it's true. And when both are nagging already, their house seems burning on fire. They'll never think of their kids nor their neighbor. There's a way to avoid turning your house upside down, learn how to lend your ears. YES! know how to listen. When the wife is talking, you husband listen first. Let her TALK AND TALK AND TALK...before the day ends, for sure she's tired talking and talking...(hahaha) And when she's tired already, YOU husband can now talk. Talk how long you want. Say what you want... Litany? We'll do it. IT'S YOUR TURN ANYWAY! We'll the idea here is...ONE must know when to talk and of course, when to LISTEN... IT'S JUST A MATTER OF GIVING AND TAKING. To keep the bond stronger, know how and when to LISTEN!
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I do agree with the idea of listening. When you are paying attention to your partner or anyone for that matter then you actually show them that you are in tune with them. There is nothing worse then trying to talk to some one about something important and they seem off in a fog just nodding there head and shortly thereafter saying,heh? Bugs the daylights out of me.
It is true that you can have better harmony in the household by just securing the bonds with a partner by just communicating effectively. This includes listening.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Thank you for award of best response. I am happy that you appreciated my words. Have a great day.