Who will you choose? The one you love or the one loves you?

My answer to your question would be based on my personal experience and decision on life and if you permit me, I'd like to share it here. I had my first romantic relationship after I graduated from college and had my first job already. He was a former officemate and after months of courtship, I answered him and we had a relationship which lasted for almost four years. He was good-looking, fair-skinned and needless to say, a lot of girls swoon over him. Then the biggest test in our relationship happened. A girl called me up and apparently, she told me that she was pregnant with my boyfriend as the father. I was really shocked and cried my heart out. My boyfriend and I had a confrontation which led to our break up. He admitted that it was his doing. I do loved him but I've already told him during the early months of our relationship that I will put an end to our romance if a child has to beg me to let go of his father. Even if he tried to rekindle our romance, I was totally deaf and blind with his pleadings and courtship again. I decided to end it even if the child is still unborn. While this was all happening, I had another suitor who eventually became my husband. In fact, we are married for more than five years now and we do have a daughter for a child. Personally, I couldn't love a man if doing so would mean that I will hurt someone else, particularly a child. I couldn't compete with that. I also believe that if he did it once and got away with it, he could do it again; hurting me in the process.

I would sacrifice my love and choose someone who loves me because I would not want to break someone elses heart, I would then try to love that person with all my heart.

I have chosen the person whom i love a lot as my girlfriend. At staring she was loving some one else. But its my love which changing her day by day to become mine completely. Now she stated to love me and care for me.

every person will choose someone they love... But its still depend on that person... So you will still wait for his answer.. But for me i will rather choose someone who loves me... coz he accepts me for who i'am

i'll gonna chose the who loves me.. i don't want to love someone who don't love me.it's hurt.. that's why i settle for someone who loves me and i know i'm gonna love him too coz i'm easy to please (",)