what iwill you do if your boyfriend is dating a guy

I will be completely devastated. I would prefer him to have a girl than a boy. But actually it is quite shocking if that really happen.

shock and get totally depressed. but if that is what he is... i have to accept.. Love cannot be force

The being with someone else wouldnt bother me...its the lying and hiding things from me that would set me off...Would matter if it was a girl or a guy, bottomline is he lied and hid things from me and thats never acceptable in my books

OMG, are you serious on what you've said? sorry for that reaction but i was just shock.... Anyway seriously so you're saying that your boyfriend is a gay? ok, first of all i will be confused and ask my self why? of course i will be puzzled if he's a gay why did he court me and be hi girlfiend, also i will feel angry coz on what i've seen it obviously that he is a gay and i will think that he just use me to hide his true personality but still i will talk to him and frank him on what i saw, we cannot rely on what we saw though it is obvious still i will hear his side, so what ever the reason is i need to accept it and what ever the truth i need to face the reality, since we as woman dont want to have a gay husband or boyfriend why not just move on and let him go. I need to understand that he has crisis also, though my friends will laugh at me still i'll just accept it, i can do anything if he's really a gay...

shocking is an understatement..i think something like a grenade or a bomb hit you!..it's so unfair.. i'll gonna break up with him ASAP! (",)

even though I'm not a girl but I want to react with this one hehehehe, well first of course I will ask for a serious talk about our status and I will let him to choose if what really in his heart and whatever decisions he will make I will just respect it.... JUST AN ADVICE HEHEHEHEHE:)

the same as I would if he cheated on me with another woman, cheating is cheating. still, I suppose at least if it was with a man rather than a woman, I would know that, if he was gay, it woulnd't be so much a personal insult as it would be if he went away with another woman. but if he was Bi, then I would consider it exactly the same as cheating with another woman. after all, if you like brunettes and blondes, it doesn't excuse having one of each, so neither should liking men and women mean you get one of each. cheating is cheating. so I think the difference is, if he'd realised he was gay, I'd still feel betrayed, but I would hope to at least remain friends, as I love him dearly, he is my best friend in the world, and it would be tragic to lose that over his sexuality. whearas cheating on me with another woman would be the end.

It's not an overacting but if would find out that my boyfriend is dating a gay? grrr.. i will freaking out! Eww that's disgraceful for me, and straight away break up no more explanation, and i don't consider any explanation. that's it!