how to make friends in the society

get active in groups.. like get together with co-workers.. find some groups that get together around town that like the same things.. if your in america there is meetup.com that you can search and find like the same hobbies and the groups get together and have parties to meet each other etc.. im sure in any country there are something like that and you could search the internet for them.. if you are/were religious then religious functions are a great way of making friends.. i dont really believe in making friends at bars/clubs but im sure some people have.. you just gotta figure out which way is best for you and what type of people you want to hang with

The best thing i can recommend to you is just try to be yourself. You might find people get offended by the way you act and you'd know they are not the set of people you would want to hang out with. because I believe that you want to hang out with people you can have ease and comfortability with and not with a bunch of guys or girls that you can pretend to someone else with. believe me, its easier to connect to a dial up connection with the topmost speed it can give than to gain real friends in the societies that we have these days. Don't ever think that it's gonna be easy but try to give yourself some justice and don't pretend to be what you're not. You are enough as you are, no need to add cherry to the top if you're not made with it. :) Don't try hanging out with people you like to have as friends or with people who like to have you as a friend. hang out with people you can be yourself with, without worrying whether you get them hurt 'cause you know it just ain't gonna happen. it's some kinda like, a bunch of people with the same "wavelengths." :)

Love Faith honesty etc .. quality will attract the friends.