when girlfrend turns into wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well.... when I meet my ex-wife she was fun, outgoing happy go lucky... 15 yrs later she was boring and never did anything fun or new...needless to say I stayed the same person as when she met me... humm.... immature; crazy but same!!!

My husband got better when we got married because I was "His Wife" in his words but my aunt, on the other hand, her husband got worse. He was very nice to her when they were dating (open car doors, flowers every week, dinner at fancy restaurants, buying her jewelry and clothes and all that) but when they got married he did a complete 180. The male friends that she had and he knew about when they were dating had to become acquaintances because he thought it was "disrespectful" for them to be friends now that she's married. The flowers stopped, jewelry stopped, and he just got mean all of a sudden. He's always talking about having to pay the bills and stuff. I really think he's crazy to be truthful.

No, I haven't noticed or experienced any changes in anything at all, actually.

Oh we had the opposite situation.. My husband became a better person. We argue less and he is very responsible. he takes such good care of me and our daughter. He tries to give us the best! When we got married, everyday is still a learning session. I discover new things about my husband still. And we've been together for 12 years (8 and a half as gf-bf)!

Well, I find that he's the same guy I thought he was...even better, he's MUCH funnier than I thought at first. I think a few people show only the good sides during courtship and they only show their true colours after they get married. I think it's such a shame. Maybe you should talk to your husband and tell him about your confusion. If you need more things or love or attention from him, you should communicate that to him and you two should work it out.

When it comes to my husband attitudes, there are changes. He gets more sweeter than before. He changed for the better and for worst. We are more happier now than before, because we are living together in the same roof. It's really true that you will know the real person if you live in the same roof. I have doubts and anticipations before that he might change and the love he had for me may fade. I was wrong, as day pass by the love we have for each other get stronger and better. He do what he promised, but not really right away it takes time. Everytime I woke up in the morning seeing his face sleeping like an angel, makes me really think that I am so lucky to be his wife.

hi archnap when I turned into awife my boyfriend and my then husband became even more thoughtful. he was my best friend I could tell him everything and he could confide in me too.'He just grew better amd better as time wenton.I had fewcomplaints. he was a dear sweet gentle man.

well, frankly theres a lot of changes-you get to know him in a deeper level but deep inside he's still the same guy you fell in love with just a little matured and wiser and responsible. If you expect that he will never change forever youre bound to be disappointed coz theres nothing constant in this world..eventually he will change but you must be able to keep the love alive coz sometimes they will be a bit cooler but if you ask him to go out to reminisce the past he'll remember that sometimes he's too preoccupied and may be neglecting you and will make-up welcome to mylot

do you know one thing.a love will be fullfilled when they get married.its the true love

well to be honest with you its not over there are always gonna be new things weather its good or bad thats just part of growing up and becoming more comfortable with each other

I am lucky at this point,she is looking me and make me more happy after becoming wife.She is also looking my parents well.

I couldn't help laughing because this happens to my husband and me sometimes. Times like these, I usually stop and ask him "Excuse me, do I know you from somewhere? Have we met?" hehehe! I guess it's because there are times when the romance isn't there anymore and i feel taken for granted, or worse, FORGOTTTEN. But i guess, putting humor back into the situation tends to bring it all back for my husband and I.

i think my husband became more loving and protective of me when i became his wife. i noticed some changes but it was for the better. there were misunderstandings, of course, because as a girlfriend, i really didn't know everything about him. when we had the baby, he became more responsible and mature.

i am not yet married but i think that depends on how much you really know each other. i guess the longevity of your relationship really matters. like if youre together for a very long long time, i think you know each other really well and that would not cause any argument. it also depends on how the teo of you settle your differences. right?

I find that he asks me to make meals more often. Before we were married, I rarely made dinner. We would just find something in the fridge or in the cupboard. But now he asks me "What's for breakfast?", "What's for lunch?", "What's for dinner?". I am not a huge fan of cooking but now I feel obligated to make a meal. I guess that is fine though because now we have a son and I should be more consistent with meals, not just throwing down a bowl of cereal after work.