if you had something positive to say to me today what would you say?

I would say to you to concentrate on the good of your life, to find some joy in your family and do a couple of things that you love, everyday problems or even big problems are not here to stay, keep positive.

Well, it's all about your thinking. There is negative thinking and positive thinking. I notice that when I try to force myself to think positive it feels like I'm holding back and denying emotion, but you don't have to do that. Just try to see things in a different way, think over your problems but think about the future. If you want to be happier, just tell yourself you're going to be happier this year, and keep that at the back of your mind, In no time, it will stick. You are your best resource. You can make yourself feel better if you want to, nobody can bring you down.

Hold head up and smile!

Don't stop. What ever your goals in life are, don't stop. It might seem that you're trying to go forward only to get knocked backward. Just keep focused on your goal, taking small steps forward. You might not get to your goal in a straight line, it might curve and double back, but if you keep trying you will get there.

If I knew you and had something good to say I would say it. Everyone needs encouragement in their life.