A boy and a puppy

@bamakelly (5191)
United States
September 8, 2008 3:44pm CST
My husband and I just got a little beagle puppy about 5 weeks old or more. I have a young son about to turn five years old soon. I was wondering if anyone has a small child with a puppy and if you ever run across any issues that I might need to know about where training the puppy is concerned. Or just any feedback about any of this. Thank you.
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@tiff1984 (385)
• United States
8 Sep 08
We got a puppy when my son had just turned two. The main issue I had is Toby, the puppy, jumping on my son. I can't seem to get him trained not to jump on people.
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Thank you for your response. My puppy is not really at that stage quite yet. He is just getting used to being weaned from his mother. I do realize that puppies and dogs can jump on people but I do worry about dogs getting aggressive. Thank you for your input.
@tiff1984 (385)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Toby is a cocker spaniel. He is five months old now. The jumping is an issue because his nails scratch my son. I hope you don't have this same problem.
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@ellie333 (21016)
9 Sep 08
Hi Congratulations on your new arrival, beagles are lovely dogs. I have just got a new puppy myself, a collie and my son is four and a half. Firstly I have taught my son to be gentle as the pup is a baby and have also explained that as he is a puppy he will jump and try to chew at times but he isn't trying to hurt and explained to my son to say a firm NO like mummy does. They are firm friends already but the pup needs to listen to myself and my son, he is paper trained already which is a blessing, the odd accident but still young. I will be taking mine to puppy training classes once he has had all his innoculations which will also socialise him with other dogs too. As they like to chew I would ask your son to keep special toys out of reach as the puppy won't know the difference yet between his own squeaky ball and your childs favourite toy. Enjoy, it is like having another baby in the family but the main thing is consistency and routine so the pup will know his boundaries the same as a child. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
9 Sep 08
my son with the new puppy Ziggy - my son with his new puppy Ziggy
Here is a picture of my son with our puppy. Ellie :D
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Thank you for the words of wisdom and advice. I have been telling my son to be gentle to him and so far it is working. My son likes to interact with the puppy and also expressed his willingness to help. You are right. It is kind of like having a baby again in the family.
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@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
8 Sep 08
First off, you need to train your puppy to realize that he needs to listen to not only you and your husband, but your son as well. We got a puppy three years ago, that soon grew to almost the size of my daughter. She would jump up on her (and other people). We kept on her (the dog) not to jump, by saying "off" with a gentle push with the knee if she jumped and making her sit when she jumped up. She eventually learned not to jump up. My kids had to learn to be firm when telling her commands (say it like you mean it) so she would listen to them. She was a challenge because she's not the smartest dog. Of course, it's hard when you're a puppy and you just want to play, eat and sleep. She missed the kids when they were at school and she has lots of engery - still. We learned a lot just by watching the Dog Whisperer. I know it sounds funny, but we did.
• United States
9 Sep 08
We went through that with our kids too. My son was really good, but when my daughter was a toddler, she tried to pull our older dog's ear once. It was only once, because our dog kind of snapped at her, didn't bite her but she definitely let our daughter know she did not like that. All she did was move her head, then continued to lie down and let my daughter crawl over her again. I don't know if all dogs would have that kind of restraint.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Thank you so much for your input on this. I have been getting responses for this question quite quickly and I appreciate it. I believe you are right about being assertive in our voices and teaching my son to do the same. Right now I guess I am concerned with my son behaving himself and not mistreating the dog. But so far, so good!
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Sep 08
just make sure he is kind to the puppy and dont hurt it and it will always treat him the same. this could be his best friend if hes careful with it.
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I am making sure that my son is good to the puppy. We have had animals before and my son was kind of aggressive with them. Almost like he has no fear. But I do appreciate you responding and giving me some advice.
@redkathy (3374)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Beagles are nice dogs. I remember my girlfriend having one for many years. A family friendly dog. I had one too when I was first married. They like to howl, or at least mine did. Mine was very good with my son, who was a new born when I got the dog. I moved to Florida and had to give the dog away. My youngest son has a beagle puppy now and he is a nice puppy. No jealousy or anything like that. Beagles tend to have issues with their ears, which is the case with my son's puppy right now. Other than that, I think you made a good choice. Have a nice day bamakelly.
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@redkathy (3374)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Because the have floppy ears the air circulation is limited. This causes wax build up, yeast infections and/or ear mites. It is common but not always the case. Cleaning the ears helps. It would be best to discuss with a vet when you get started with shots.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Thank you for responding. It is still in the early stages right now. The puppy drinks a little and does eat but seems to lay about a lot. My house is pretty cool right now, temperature wise but she is laying on a cool kitchen floor now. It is very hot and humid outside. I take her outside to do her business. I just want to make sure that she gets bathroom trained somehow. I didn't know anything about problems with beagles' ears. Would you be able to enlighten me on this if you have the information?
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@JFER33 (6)
9 Sep 08
We got a puppy (or should I say 3 yrs old but still acts like a puppy) when our son was 2. The hardest thing that we have had is that our son is not nice to the dog. He always tries to hit and pull it and has gotten bit from it before. I think it is a learning process for both of them. But if they grow up together, I bet they will do good! Good Luck!!
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Thanks for the response. My son sort of manhandled a couple of the pets we had before. He is acting a little better this time toward our new puppy. They seem to be getting like friends now. I hope that it lasts.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Be sure your child is supervised at all times when he's around the puppy. Young children don't realize that they can hurt puppies by hugging them too hard, pulling their tails, etc. Most little kids who are bitten by dogs and puppies are unwittingly doing something to provoke it. They don't mean to hurt the dogs, they just don't know any better. This is a good age to teach your child the right way to treat a loving pet.
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Thank you for your words of advice. You are right about teaching a child to treat an animal correctly. I will be sure to instill these values in my son.
• Lubbock, Texas
8 Sep 08
I don't know much about training puppies, but I do know that with a small child in the house you couldn't have made a better choice of breeds. Beagles are gentle while still being frisky and generally being a nuisance as all puppies are til they're trained! I have seen 3 and 4 year olds walking beagle puppies on leashes. Of course the parent was there too, but the puppies seemed to know that was a child holding the leash and behaved well.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Thank you for your input. I believe you are right. The beagle does seem to be a great breed of choice to have in my home right now especially with my son. It is going to take some getting used to though. We do have a leash for her but for now she doesn't go too far when we take her outside to do her business.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Well, you already have the puppy correct? If the dog doesn't jump and attack the little boy when he tries to run around, like ;my dog does, [luckily we don't have any young children here] and the puppy can have plenty of time to adjust to bonding and playing with the boy, all should be well. Just don't leave them alone together until you're sure they'll both be safe together. Most importantly the puppy will probably nip as it's very little now, be sure to scold it when it does that. Be very consist ant with training and make sure he sees the boy as his master, make sure your boy trains and punishes him too. This will be a great learning experience. I got my first puppy when I was ten, but he's a terrier so he would be too wild for a little kid.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I think that your response if very good. I have heard this before about getting my son to be somewhat of a master to the dog and it does make sense to me. The little puppy is really small right now and is just in the beginning stages of play and maybe some slight nipping. I am not too concerned right now but I will be careful. Thank you very much.