What if your boyfriend was a GAY?

I can imagine how painful it must have had been for her.I had one aunt,who was long back in the same situation as your friend.They both had a great relationship together for almost two years and by the time my aunt's parents wanted to talk with him regarding their relationship,commitment and marriage,he admitted he is a "gay" and he cannot marry her.It was very shocking to all of us,especially to my aunt who was head over heels in love with him,she cried a lot,she felt cheated and she don't want to see any man anymore and not to talk about marriage.She had bad experience.After that,he went away somewhere leaving my aunt alone, not even saying "sorry" to her for playing with her emotions.She haven't forgotten nor forgiven him.She said he was a great guy,only if he would have just apologise and told her the truth,she said she would have at least forgiven and just be friends with him.I guess,he felt guilty and so left without saying anything to her. It Now,to answer,your curiosity,if I found out that my boyfriend is a gay after years of relationship,definitely I will feel cheated and hurt since he don't trust me enough to tell me about himself.It is like he played with my feelings and emotions.I might forgive him and continued with friendship,because I cannot blame him for what he is..it is not his fault,I cannot blame him but yes,I would have expected him to be more truthful in a relationship and I guess,I will break up but continued the friendship if he is really sorry for what he did and has a genuine reason for hiding his secret. I won't leave him but continued with the beautiful relationship only difference is,we would be just good friends and nothing else.

i cant say any thing its too much but i think if u love very much some one then nothing is matter ever it is gay or any thing els..

Hehehe.. yesterday one of our members posted about seeing her boyfriend kissing a guy, she found it out just lately... Anyway, back to your question, to be true it would be o hard for me to accept the truth, i cant help not to ask myself why, why i did not notice it, why of all to me, why he lied to me, alot of questions will come also to be frank i cant help myself not to get angry with my boyfriend coz i feel he used me to hide his true personality. Breaking up will be the best thing to do, it i useless to stay with him where in it i obvious the i and my boyfriend want the same (man). I'll try to move on and accept the truth.

omg! i tend to think that if my boyfriend was gay i would have noticed it.nevertheless, if i found out something like this i would really get very angry on myself and him.my life would be a lie.and my time spent with him would mean nothing. it's like you wake up one day and your life flashes before your eyes and you're thinking:"is this really my life?" i would break up with him because if his gay that means i have loved another man.a straight one.